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July 5, 2010  #87     858-490-8323
 
 
 
Dear e-link Member,





The staff of the Office for Social Ministry wishes everyone a belated happy Fourth of July, and may Our Lord continue to bless us with the freedom to openly worship our God and serve his people
!





We are pleased to announce that the open support-staff position in the OSM has been filled.  Maria Valencia (see photo at right), parishioner at Our Lady of Guadalupe in Chula Vista, has accepted the position.  Maria will be in the OSM office mornings, Monday through Friday, starting Tuesday, July 6th.  May her service be fruitful.

We welcome Maria to the Pastoral Center!

As always, we remind current members and inform new members that past e-link bulletins and this current bulletin can be viewed at www.osmelink.org.

God Bless
 

Monday, July 5, 2010  e-link Bulletin #87

Table of Contents 


Remarks - article from The Southern Cross on "Healing the Culture - Funding the 
               Abortion Changes You Outreach"
 

Key Upcoming Culture-of-Life Gatherings/Projects (please join us)

    1. Mark your calendars...  On August 14, 2010, at the Viejas Arena (formerly
        the Cox Arena) join with thousands of friends and parishioners to celebrate
        life at the Mother of Life Conference, from 8:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m.
 
          *****$10 Reduced registration fee extended until July 15*******

    2. Stand with Children Training and Formation Program continues in  
        San Diego, Regaining the Offense on Defining Marriage - the final two 
        parts of this four-part series will be held on Saturdays in July and
        August, Sponsored by Catholics for the Common Good, supported by the
        Office for Social Ministry
 

Short Reports on Office for Social Ministry Related Issues/Events

      1. No reports for this month


Web and e-mail-based Resources

     - Take a quick Care-Net quiz on pregnancy care centers.  You might 
       be surprised at how much you'll learn


Local and Regional Events/Gatherings/Projects

     1. Attend the San Diego Friends of Fair Trade monthly meeting on Wednesday, 
         August 11, at 6:30 p.m. at the Open Door Book Store in Pacific Beach

     2.  "Get Acquainted with Detention Ministry" monthly information/training
          sessions offered by Deacon Walsh at the Pastoral Center - contact Deacon
          Jim Walsh for days and times in July


     3.  North County prayer witness at the Carlsbad Planned Parenthood Clinic
          scheduled for every third Monday of the month from 10:00 a.m. to
          10:30 a.m.

     4. Prayerful witness for life at two locations in San Diego County - every
         Saturday and Wednesday at 7340 Miramar Road, just east of the Pyramid
         Building, adjacent to Carroll Road, and the second Saturday of every 
         month at 15546 Pomerado Road in Poway

     5. St. Dismas Guild sponsors two weekly hours of prayer for the unborn
         in front of the North County Women's Medical Clinic on Craven Way

     6. St. Elizabeth Seton Parish in Carlsbad also supports the St. Dismas 
         Guild prayer ministry in front of the North County Women's Medical 
         Clinic on Craven Way

     7. St. John the Evangelist Parish in Encinitas Pro-Life Mass and Rosary held
         on the first Monday of each month

     8. Prayer Vigil at Planned Parenthood - First and Grape Street, San Diego –
         Saturdays from 7:30 a.m. to 9:30 a.m.

     9. Most Precious Blood Parish in Chula Vista Rosary Prayer Vigils held every
         Wednesday at 8:45 a.m.

    10. Prayer partners are needed at 1079 Third Ave., suite 3, in Chula
         Vista - abortions are performed at this facility - Meet each Wednesday
         from 8:45 a.m. to 10:45 a.m.

    11. Join neighbors and friends to pray in front of the new Planned
            Parenthood
facility in El Cajon on Fridays and Saturdays

    12. The Goretti Group is offering a chastity prayer gathering and a speaker
            training monthly along with a Mass to celebrate chastity
 

Article/Statement for July 5, 2010

     - Pro-Abortion Groups Want Pregnancy Centers Removed From Internet
          Directories
... This tactic lifts so-called "reproductive choice" and its
        proponents to new levels of hypocrisy - article by Steven Ertelt of 
          Life News

 

Remarks - Article on "Healing the Culture..."







Major Ad Campaign to Promote After-Abortion Web Site

By Denis Grasska





SAN DIEGO — A consortium of Christian churches, businesses and individuals wants the public to know about a special place where people can share their painful experiences with abortion.

“Healing the Culture, Funding the ‘Abortion Changes You’ Outreach” was formed in late 2009 to spearhead a fundraising campaign and purchase advertising in support of the Web site Abortion Changes You (www.abortionchangesyou.com).

“We would like to make ‘Abortion Changes You’ a household name in the San Diego region. That’s our goal,” said Kent Peters, director of the diocesan Office for Social Ministry and co-chair of Healing the Culture.

Peters said the ads the consortium purchases will promote Abortion Changes You as “the place where you go to learn about healing” after an abortion, an apolitical and nonjudgmental site where people can share their stories and locate community resources that will assist them in exploring their feelings about a past abortion.

When asked why Abortion Changes You is worthy of such a large-scale fundraising campaign, Peters pointed to statistics that show that one in three women will have an abortion by the time they are 45 years old.

“We figure that half of the Catholic population in our diocese has some significant experience with abortion,” Peters said, noting that abortion affects not only the woman who makes that choice, but also her relatives, friends and spouse or boyfriend, not to mention the fathers of aborted children.  “If there’s something that half the diocese needs and 99 percent don’t know about it, we have an informational nightmare on our hands.”

Faced with such a major societal problem and confident in the effectiveness of the Abortion Changes You outreach, Peters said the decision to launch Healing the Culture was a simple one.

Healing the Culture’s fundraising campaign began last month. With $10,000 in start-up funds, it printed flyers, donation envelopes and other materials in both English and Spanish.  It also launched its own Web site at www.healingtheculturesd.org.

As of June 2, some 22 parishes had pledged to hold special collections in support of Healing the Culture.

Parish special collections will be taken up between May and August.  Online contributions and donations from major benefactors will continue to be accepted through August.  Starting in September, the consortium will begin purchasing advertising online, on the radio, in malls and on various modes of public transportation, such as city buses and trolleys.

Ten women, all graduates of the Rachel’s Hope after-abortion healing program, have volunteered to speak at Masses where special collections are taken up for Healing the Culture. Rachel’s Hope is among the many local healing resources featured on the Abortion Changes You Web site.

Lisa Becerra, who had an abortion in 2003 and attended a Rachel’s Hope retreat in summer 2008, shared her story May 8 during a Mass at Holy Trinity Parish in El Cajon.  She is also scheduled to speak June 26-27 at weekend Masses at St. Patrick Parish in Carlsbad.

Becerra said she was nervous while preparing for her presentation and driving to the church, “but during the talk, I was very much at peace.  The congregation was terrific.  They were very polite and [they] listened.”

“This takes a whole lot of courage and humility for these women to come up and speak,” said Rosemary Benefield, founder of Rachel’s Hope. “They feel very strongly about needing to get this message out.”

Peters said it is “amazing” that these women are “willing to stand up in front of whole congregations” and speak about their abortion experiences.  For some of them, he said, this marks the first time they “went public.”

“I think it’s a sign because, five or 10 years ago, you would not have gotten this to happen,” Peters said. “Something’s moving. Could it be the Holy Spirit?”

For more information on Healing the Culture, visit www.healingtheculturesd.org or call Kent Peters at (858) 490-8323.

The Southern Cross

This article appears in the June 2010 issue of The Southern Cross.


Thank you and God bless you.

 

Key Upcoming Culture-of-Life Gatherings/Projects


Number 1:  (Second Notice)

Join thousands of friends at the Mother of Life Conference on Saturday, August 14, 2010, from 8:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m. at the Viejas Arena at SDSU (formerly the Cox Arena) at 5500 Canyon Crest Drive, San Diego, for a celebration of life you will never forget - seating is limited so register online today





The San Diego Chapter of the Knights of Columbus are pleased to invite you to attend the Mother of Life Conference on Saturday August 14, 2010 8:00 a.m. to 6 p.m. at San Diego State University Viejas Arena. Featured speakers are: Father Tom Euteneurer, Father Mitch Pacwa, Lila Rose, and Callista & Newt Gingrich.  Fr. Frank Pavone will celebrate the closing Mass.  The Mother of Life Conference will be promoted throughout California within the Knights of Columbus organization. More than 3500 attendees are expected.

Special Note...

Due to late delivery of printed flyers to some parishes, the $35 per person registration fee that expired on July 1st will be honored until July 15th.

The $45 registration fee per person will start on July 16, 2010.

FREE admission to pre-registered priests, religious, and seminarians.


To register online and to print a full colored flyer for distribution to friends and family, visit:

www.motheroflifeconference.com

Conference Speakers:



 

 

 

 

 

 

 




 


 





 

 

 






Closing Liturgy Celebrant:

 


 











Experience this much heralded Southern California Pro-Life Event!  Be sure to visit the conference exhibit hall which will feature a wide array of Culture-of-Life  educational materials, music, gift items, and so much more!

Contact Kent Peters for more information: 858-490-8324
 



 

Number 2: 

"Stand with Children" Training and Formation Program - Learn New Positive Advocacy Techniques and Messages on the Centrality of Marriage - a Four-part Series in San Diego, CA, with two parts to go.

The final two events will be held at:
John Paul the Great University
10174 Old Grove Road, San Diego, CA 92131

All events: 8:30 a.m. to 4:30 p.m.


Saturday, July 10th
Practical Tools Workshop
Participants gain hands-on training in speaking techniques responding to common arguments from opponents, redirecting discussions to create more favorable terms for supporting marriage, and identifying other like-minded people to join the Stand with Children leadership team.

Saturday, August 21st
Created for Love Retreat
Participants contemplate Trinitarian love as the source and meaning of the person, marriage, family, and a civilization of love.

Directions:
15 to the Miramar Road/Pomerado Road exit
East on Pomerado Road
Left on Willow Creek Road
Left on Old Grove Road

Registration:

For single event: $30/person; $50/couple
For 4 event series: $100/person; $175/couple
Includes breakfast and lunch

Inquiries: (213) 291-3580
kathleen@ccgaction.org

Click Here to download a flyer/registration form for the July retreat:

http://www.ccgaction.org/downloads/swctrain/10-07-10SanDiegoPTW.pdf

  
 



Short Reports on OSM Related Issues/Events


Number 1:   

No reports this month

 

 

Web and e-mail-based Resources



For years pregancy care centers have been viciously attacked by the abortion industry and their political operatives.  Why?  Because learning the truth about pregnancy often moves expectant mothers to care for their young, not destroy them, and put simply, when that happens, the abortion industry loses customers. 

The tactic of choice utilized by abortion proponents has been to malign and misrepresent both the advertising of and the services offered by legitimate pregnancy care centers.


Care Net supports a network of more than 1,100 pregnancy centers across North America and operates the Option Line call center and website that assist women in need around the clock.

Take a quiz on pregnancy care centers (see link just below) offered by Care Net to learn what these great centers actually offer women, children, and men in need.  After the quiz, visit the Care Net web site to learn more about how these centers are organized and operate.  There are 18 pregnancy care centers serving in San Diego and Imperial Counties, several of which are affiliated with Care Net.


 

http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/realquizaboutpregnancycenters

https://www.care-net.org/
 


 

New Local/Regional Events and Gatherings 


If you are planning an event that falls within the mission of social ministry, send the particulars four to five weeks in advance to the Office for Social Ministry via e-mail, osmelink@diocese-sdiego.org.  The OSM reserves the right to publish or not to publish any proposed event information.  We hope this will assist your local efforts to rebuild a culture of life.
 

1. Attend the San Diego "Friends of Fair Trade" monthly meeting

San Diego Friends of Fair Trade is a coalition of non-profit organizations and congregations attempting to advance the cause of fair trade.  They work to insure that all individuals who toil, both at home and around the world, to provide consumers with commodities are paid a living wage, one that can sustain a life with dignity. 

The next SD Friends of Fair Trade meeting will be on Wednesday, August 11, 2010, at 6:30 p.m. at the Open Door Book Store on 4761 Cass St., Pacific Beach - For more information, please contact Carolyn Lief at fairtradesandiego@gmail.com.  To sign up for the Fair Trade San Diego newsletter, send a request to fairtradesandiego@gmail.com 
 

2. Get Acquainted with Detention Ministry in the Diocese of San Diego

Join Deacon Jim Walsh each month for an Information and Training Seminar on detention ministry and restorative justice at the Diocesan Pastoral Center, 3888 Paducah Drive, San Diego, 92117

Visit the OSM Restorative Justice Web site: www.diocese-sdiego.org/restore

For the month of July...

- Contact Deacon Jim Walsh for days and times (see just below)

Sorry, no walk-ins.  Contact Deacon Jim Walsh for reservations or questions: 858-490-8375 or e-mail Deacon Jim at jwalsh@diocese-sdiego.org

 

3. North-County prayer witness at the Carlsbad Planned Parenthood Clinic

North County parishioners meet the third Monday of every month from 10:00 a.m. to 10:30 a.m. to peacefully pray the rosary in front of the Carlsbad Planned Parenthood Clinic.  The clinic is located at 1820 Marron Rd. (in the shopping center just west of Plaza Camino Real Mall).  For more information, contact Jahna White of St. Margaret Parish at 760-586-6356.
 

4. Prayerful witness for life at two locations (7340 Miramar Road in San Diego and 15546 Pomerado Road in Poway) in San Diego County

Helpers of God’s Precious Infants weekly rosary prayer vigil from 8:00 a.m. to 10:30 a.m. every Saturday and Wednesday at 7340 Miramar Road, directly above Metro Flooring in the complex with the Pyramid Building, adjacent to Carroll Road.  Prayer warriors also needed as early as 7:30 a.m.

Call Roger Lopez at 619-276-7525 for more information.
 
Second Saturday of the month:  20 decades of the Rosary are prayed in procession past 4 clinics following the 7:30 a.m. Mass, 15546 Pomerado Road, Poway.  For more information, call 858-748-2109. 


5. St. Dismas Guild sponsors two weekly hours of prayer for the unborn in North County

Join members of St. Dismas Guild for a rosary picket at North County Women's Medical Clinic, 120 S. Craven Way, San Marcos, (across from Cal State San Marcos), Tuesdays, 9:00 a.m. to 10:00 a.m.

The Guild also sponsors prayer (the rosary) in front of PayLess at Mission Avenue and Escondido Blvd., 347 W. Mission, on Thursdays, 10:30 a.m. to 11:30 a.m.  For information on these prayer vigils, call 760-751-8541. 


6. St. Elizabeth Seton Parish in Carlsbad has a tri-weekly prayer ministry in front of the North County Women's Medical Clinic on Craven Way - San Marcos on Tuesdays, Thursdays, and Fridays

Please join the St. Elizabeth Seton "Life Matters" Culture of Life prayer vigils at 10:00 a.m. to Noon every Tuesday, Thursday, and Friday morning at "North County Women's Medical Clinic": 120 Craven Road, San Marcos - http://www.womensmedicalclinic.com/.  Those interested can carpool from St. Elizabeth Seton's upper parking lot at 9:30 a.m.  Those who do not want to carpool, please feel free to meet us at the Abortion Center at 10:00 a.m. or at any time between 10:00 a.m. and Noon.  These vigils are not confrontational.  We give witness by being present in prayer and entrust our message to the Blessed Mother.  Contact Gene: ejzoval@yahoo.com or 760-804-9656 for more information.


7. St. John the Evangelist Parish in Encinitas Pro-Life Mass and Rosary held on the first Monday of each month

The first Monday of every month is designated Pro-Life Monday at St. John the Evangelist Church, 1001 Encinitas Blvd, Encinitas.  The 8:00 a.m. Mass will be followed by a Rosary for Life.


8. Prayer Vigil at Planned Parenthood - First and Grape Street, San Diego – Saturdays from 7:30 a.m. to 9:30 a.m.

Prayer vigil contacts: Luis Mendoza 619-259-3906 or Roger Lopez 619-276-7525.   Rosary processions the first Saturday of every month from Our Lady of the Rosary, Date & State St., after the 7:30 a.m. Mass.             


9. Most Precious Blood Parish Rosary Prayer Vigils held on Wednesdays each week 

The Pro-Life Prayer Group from Most Precious Blood sponsors a Rosary Prayer Vigil in front of "A Woman's Choice" Clinic abortion facility at 1550 Broadway, Chula Vista, every Wednesday at 8:45 a.m.  For more information, please call Shirley Henry at 619-420-7096 or Luis Mendoza at 619-259-3906.
 

10. Prayer partners are needed at the office of Feliciano Rios M.D., 1079 Third Ave., suite 3, in Chula Vista - Dr. Rios performs abortions at his medical facility - Meet each Wednesday from 8:45 a.m. to 10:45 a.m.

Please contact Luis Mendoza, a Missionary of The Gospel of Life Lay Associate, at 619-259-3906, with questions or to share interest in this prayer ministry.


11. Pray in front of the Planned Parenthood facility located at 1685 East Main, just off the Greenfield Drive exit in El Cajon - join friends and neighbors

According to the PP website, chemical (RU-486) abortions only are done at this location - not surgical abortions.  They do refer women for abortions to their surgical center on First Ave.  Join the group each Friday from 8:30 a.m. to 10:00 a.m. and Saturday from 9:00 a.m. to 11:00 a.m. Contact: mfowler@nethere.com


12.   The Goretti Group offers chastity prayer and speaker training monthly

Every First Friday of the month, the Goretti Group will celebrate a St. Maria Goretti Mass at Our Lady of the Rosary, 1654 State Street, at 6:15 p.m.

Every Second Monday of the month: ChasteMasters Meeting at Our Lady of the Rosary, Giovanni Room, 7:00 p.m.  Please join us in prayer, a roundtable discussion, and providing feedback as chastity speakers refine their talks.

For more info please visit: www.thegorettigroup.org or call David at: 619-733-8439

 

Watch for OSM e-link bulletin #88 around Thursday, August 5, 2010    

 

Article/Statement for July 5, 2010



Pro-Abortion Group Wants Pregnancy Centers Removed From Internet Directories





by Steven Ertelt
LifeNews.com Editor
July 1, 2010
 


As the founder and Editor of LifeNews.com, Steven Ertelt has provided timely pro-life news to the pro-life community across the country and around the world for more than fifteeen years.



Washington, DC (LifeNews.com) -- They say they support choice, but the pro-abortion activists at NARAL want to leave women in unplanned pregnancy situations with one option: abortion.  In a letter to its members today, NARAL president Nancy Keenan announced she is asking two Internet directories to remove pregnancy center listings.

If NARAL is successful, that means millions of people who visit the two prominent directories every year will not see listings for pregnancy centers that provide women with abortion alternatives.

"Today, my team sent our letter with more than 59,000 signatures to YellowPages.com and SuperPages.com asking them to remove misleading CPC ads from their sites," Keenan said this afternoon.  "But anti-choice CPCs are still blanketing buses, billboards, and even the airwaves with their falsehoods."

LifeNews.com has contacted but not received a response from representatives of both directories to determine whether they will bend to NARAL's pressure to remove these pro-woman agencies from their listings.

Even if NARAL is successful in censoring information about pregnancy help centers in the directories, they want to go further.

"Now we must take the next step. We need a federal bill to put an end to deceptive CPC ads everywhere," Keenan said, using false claims to support such a bill. "Many CPCs do whatever it takes to block women from choosing abortion.  We've heard it all: lies about abortion and condoms, guilt-trips, and harassing follow-up phone calls."

Keenan is promoting the so-called Stop Deceptive Advertising for Women's Services Act, filed by pro-abortion Rep. Carolyn Maloney, a New York Democrat, in the U.S. House.  The measure would have the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) fine pregnancy centers for supposedly engaging in false advertising.

"My heart sinks every time I hear about a woman who was forced to hear lies and lectures from a CPC when what she needed was the truth.  The Stop Deceptive Advertising for Women's Services Act can protect women seeking real health care from being tricked into going to an anti-choice CPC," Keenan says.

Kristin Hansen, the vide president for communications at Care Net, a national network of more than 1,100 pregnancy centers, talked with LifeNews.com last month about other NARAL attacks on pregnancy centers.

"Abortion advocacy groups like NARAL have been working hard this year to perpetuate the 'boogeyman' idea that the work of pregnancy centers is harming women," she said.

"Every day, there’s a new blog post, video, 'undercover report,' or now, here’s a flashy quiz to help build an email list and raise money. These scare tactics are riddled with false accusations and are meant to deter women from visiting pregnancy centers for help," she added.

As a response, Care Net released its own REAL Quiz about Pregnancy Centers to counter NARAL's negativity with the truth.

Hansen says most pregnancy center clients appreciate the help and support and the ones speaking out against such centers are typically pro-abortion staffers and volunteers claiming to have been treated poorly.

"If you take a closer look, you see that the negative information about pregnancy centers comes from the same people who are usually a staff person, volunteer, or member of an abortion advocacy group.  The complaints do not come from actual clients, who regularly give high approval ratings of the pregnancy center they visited," she said.

The attacks may be backfiring as Care Net is expanding its outreach to new communities.

"Despite these ongoing attacks from NARAL, a growing number of people are getting excited about the compassionate work of pregnancy centers.  Care Net sees wonderful doors opening this year as more community leaders are stepping up to open new pregnancy centers in cities where there are few or none," Hansen said.

"Every day, someone’s heart is touched with the vision of reaching out to women facing unplanned pregnancies with practical help and emotional support.  There's no new mean-spirited quiz or negative campaign that can prevent the growth of this positive movement in the hearts of volunteers across America," she concluded.

ACTION: Contact the directors at http://www.yellowpages.com/about/contact-us and http://www.superpages.com/about/feedback.html and tell them to ignore NARAL's request to remove pregnancy center ads.

Related web sites:

CareNet Quiz - http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/realquizaboutpregnancycenters
Care Net - http://www.care-net.org