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June 5, 2008  #68               858-490-8323
 
 
 
Dear e-link Subscriber,

Membership for e-link moved past the 1,200 mark on June 2nd.  Welcome new members!

Monday, June 2, 2008, will surely go down as an historic day in California.  On that day, both the Protect Marriage Initiative and the Sarah's Law Initiative qualified to be placed on the November, 2008 ballot.  You'll find the ballot initiatives' web sites at:

www.friendsofsarah.com

and

www.protectmarriage.com

If you have not signed on to these vitally important campaigns though each organizations' web site, please do so today.  Our culture depends on it.

As we gear up for the November 2008 election, watch for critical information on the "Protect Marriage" and "Sarah's Law" ballot initiatives and materials designed to increase voter registration in the Diocese of San Diego.  You'll find valuable information in this issue of e-link and issues distributed prior to the November election.

As always, we remind current members and inform new members that past e-link bulletins and this current bulletin can be viewed at www.osmelink.org.

God Bless!
 

Thursday, June 5, 2008          OSM e-link Bulletin #68

Table of Contents 


Remarks from the California Catholic Bishops on the California Supreme Court's
             decision to legalize same-sex marriage, followed by an article from
             the Southern Cross on the issue
 

Key Upcoming Culture-of-Life Gatherings/Projects (please join us)

     1.  Many Catholics have indicated a desire to support the communities in
            Myanmar and China
ravaged by typhoons and earthquakes but are afraid
          their donations may be diverted away from those in need - Giving through
          Catholic Relief Services will guarantee that those gifts will make it to 
          those who need it most - Please be generous

     2.  United for a Hate-free San Diego, a coalition of faith and community
          leaders, invites you to attend its first Hate Crimes Summit on Thursday,
          June 12, 2008, from 5:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. at the Joan B. Kroc Institute
          for Peace and Justice at the University of San Diego, 5988 Alcala Park,
          San Diego

     3.  Border Immersion Experience offered the the Center for Christian
          Spirituality at the University of San Diego - July 16 through July 19

 

Short Reports on Office for Social Ministry Related Issues/Events

     - "Reach Across The World - Transforming Lives Through Fair Trade" with
         Keynote Speaker, Jackie DeCarlo of Catholic Relief Services, was successful
         in so many ways...

 

Web and e-mail-based Resources

     - You'll want to order Dale O'leary's new book, One Man, One Woman, A
         Catholic's Guide to Defending Marriage
from Amazon - If you see
        yourself as part of the struggle to protect marriage, this is the book 
        for you!

 

Local and Regional Events/Gatherings/Projects

     1. Attend the San Diego Friends of Fair Trade meeting on Wednesday, 
         June 11, at 7:00 p.m. at the Open Door Book Store in Pacific Beach

     2.  Get acquainted with detention ministry monthly information/training
          session offered by Deacon Walsh at the diocesan Pastoral Center     

     3.  North County prayer witness at the Carlsbad Planned Parenthood Clinic
          scheduled for every third Monday of the month from 10:00 to 10:30 a.m.

     4. Prayerful witness for life at two locations in San Diego County - every
         Saturday at 7340 Miramar Road, directly above Metro Flooring in the complex
         with the Pyramid Building, adjacent to Carroll Road and the second Saturday
         of every month at 15546 Pomerado Road in Poway

     5. St. Dismas Guild sponsors two weekly hours of prayer for the unborn in
         North County

     6. St. John the Evangelist Parish in Encinitas Pro-Life Mass and Rosary held on
         the first Monday of each month

     7. Most Precious Blood Parish in Chula Vista Rosary Prayer Vigils held every
         Wednesday at 8:45 a.m.

     8. The ministry of prayer and sidewalk counseling at the Clinica Medica abortion
         facility in Chula Vista is seeking sidewalk counselors for Wednesday mornings

     9. Join neighbors and friends to pray in front of the new Planned Parenthood
         facility in El Cajon

    10. The Goretti Group is offering a chastity prayer gathering and a speaker
         training monthly

 

Article/Statement for June 5, 2008

     - Report from the Family Leader Network - Ten state Attorney Generals
       asked the California State Supreme Court to stay the May 15th ruling that
       overturned Proposition 22 - The fact that California has no residency
       requirement for obtaining marriage licenses almost guarantees that same-sex
       couples from all over the country will descend upon California to be married
       and then petition the courts within their own states to have those marriage
       legally recognized - Yesterday, June 4th, the California Supreme Court decided 
       against issuing a stay, but we decided to share this report with readers, as it
       demonstrates how draconian and extreem the reach of four individuals can
       be

 

 

Remarks from the California Catholic Bishops 


California Catholic Bishops React to CA Supreme Court Decision on Same-sex Marriage

“The California Catholic Conference of Bishops must express its disappointment in the California Supreme Court decision to declare Proposition 22 unconstitutional.

“Proposition 22, which states, ‘Only marriage between one man and one woman is valid and recognized in California,’ passed eight years ago by a vote of 61.2 to 38.8 percent. That statute reflected the wisdom of the voters of California in retaining the traditional definition of marriage as a biological reality and a societal good. Unfortunately, today, the Court saw fit to disregard the will of the majority of people of California.

“Catholic teaching maintains that marriage is a faithful, exclusive and lifelong union between one man and one woman joined in an intimate partnership of life and love—a union instituted by God for the mutual fulfillment of the husband and wife as well as for the procreation and education of children.

“Partnerships of committed same-sex individuals are already legal in California. Our state has also granted domestic partners spousal-type rights and responsibilities which facilitate their relationships with each other and any children they bring to the partnership. Every person involved in the family of domestic partners is a child of God and deserves respect in the eyes of the law and their community. However, those partnerships are not marriage—and can never be marriage—as it has been understood since the founding of the United States. Today’s decision of California’s high court opens the door for policymakers to deconstruct traditional marriage and create another institution under the guise of equal protection.

“Although we strongly disagree with the ruling, we ask our Catholic people, as well as all the people of California, to continue to uphold the dignity of every person, to acknowledge individual rights and responsibilities, and to maintain support for the unique and irreplaceable role of traditional marriage as an institution which is fundamental to society.”


And from the Southern Cross...

California Supreme Court Ruling Not the Final Word on Gay Marriage
Supporters of traditional marriage work to amend state constitution


By Denis Grasska

SAN DIEGO – On May 15, in a 4-3 decision, the California Supreme Court ruled that marriage cannot be limited to one man and one woman.

But a proposed constitutional amendment’s recent qualification for the November ballot means that the issue is far from settled.

The court’s ruling struck down Proposition 22, which passed in March 2000 with more than 61 percent of the vote in California. The proposition added Section 308.5 – a legal definition of marriage that rejected same-sex marriage – to the California Family Code.

California Supreme Court Justice Marvin Baxter, in his dissenting opinion, noted that “marriage is, as it always has been, the right of a woman and an unrelated man to marry each other,” and that “there is no deeply rooted tradition of same-sex marriage, in the nation or in this state.”

“Marriage is really the basis for society, and marriage means moms and dads raising families,” said Kent Peters, director of the diocesan Office for Social Ministry.

Divorce, premarital sex, cohabitation and pornography are all attacks on marriage, Peters added, and “this is simply one more attack to take away its meaning.”

“Marriage, as the Church understands it, is a covenant between a man and woman for the good of the spouses and the procreation and education of children,” said Peggy Skiano, director of the diocesan Office for Marriage and Family Life. “While the Church has compassion for those who struggle with same-sex attraction, two persons of the same sex cannot fulfill the meaning of marriage in a conjugal union.”
Thanks to an initiative that will appear on the Nov. 4 ballot, the court’s decision is unlikely to be the final word in this debate. If passed, the initiative would enshrine the traditional understanding of marriage in the state constitution, where it would be protected from activist judges.

The proposed Protect Marriage Amendment, with language similar to both Proposition 22 and amendments already passed in 26 states, would read as follows: “Only marriage between a man and a woman is valid or recognized in California.”

California Secretary of State Debra Bowen announced June 2 that supporters of the amendment had collected enough signatures to qualify the measure for the November ballot. In order to qualify, supporters were required to collect 694,354 valid signatures. The total number of signatures submitted to the Secretary of State for verification was 1,120,801.

“The fact that we have to put it into a constitution is absurd, but the courts have made us do that,” Peters said. “If we can at this time historically garner enough support to make the constitutional change, there’s still a good chance we might get the ball rolling in the right direction.”

For more information on the Protect Marriage Amendment, visit www.protectmarriage.com, call (916) 446-5031 or email info@protectmarriage.com.

The Southern Cross
CNS materials were used in this article.

 

Thank you and God bless!

 

Key Upcoming Culture-of-Life Gatherings/Projects


Number 1:  Catholic Relief Services (CRS) is getting much needed aid to those most in need in both Myanmar and the Sichuan Province of China - You can trust that a donation through CRS will reach those devastated by natural disasters

 

 




 


Donate to help the Myanmar Community

https://secure2.convio.net/crs/site/Donation2?df_id=1660&1660.donation=form1




 

 
Donate to help the China's Sichuan Cmmunity
https://secure2.convio.net/crs/site/Donation2?df_id=1680&1680.donation=form1


Report from Myanmar:

The head of the Catholic Church in Myanmar says aid is getting through to people in some of the areas most affected by Cyclone Nargis.  Across the Ayeyarwady Delta region, survival remains a daily struggle for millions who are living in horrific conditions with no clean water, food, shelter or medical attention within reach.

"Many of these people would now be dead if it had not been for the work of the Church and the solidarity of Caritas and its supporters who have given so generously. The people of Myanmar for one of the first times feel a sense of being connected to the outside world and that we are not alone.  For all the help, we're grateful," said Archbishop of Mandalay Paul Zingtung Grawng, president of the Myanmar Bishops' Conference.

The Archbishop was speaking on a visit to Rome to staff at Caritas Internationalis, the umbrella organization for 162 national Catholic humanitarian organizations that includes Catholic Relief Services.

"Our Church workers went immediately into the worst-hit villages to rescue people and bring them to safety. We are able to provide food, shelter and medicine to people in camps in churches. We are also able to deliver supplies to people who have remained in their villages,” reported Archbishop Grawng.


Report from the Sichuan Province of China:

Catholic Relief Services (CRS) has committed $100,000 to Caritas Hong Kong's relief efforts in the wake of the powerful May 12 earthquake in China that has claimed more than 68,000 lives.

In and around the capital city of Sichuan, Caritas Hong Kong has assessment teams on the ground identifying the scale of devastation and loss, and the ways to best provide immediate and long-term support for survivors. The assessment team found hygienic conditions to be dire and the needs of children paramount.

"Most of the children who lived in the temporary tents were [sitting] idle; they had nothing to do. Though they had shelter and received something to eat, nobody was taking care of their secondary needs. They need clothes, basic living essentials. The tents are scattered and not many of the volunteers are professionally trained in counseling," said a partner staff member.

Caritaas Hong Kong plans to provide outreach and support to children for their healing and to establish a sense of routine, to reclaim their sense of normalcy.

Caritas Internationalis, the network of 162 national Caritas organizations (including CRS or the U.S. Catholic Bishops), will coordinate the efforts of the global Caritas family.


 

 

If you have not done so, please give today.




 

Number 2:   United for a Hate-Free San Diego presents its first "Hate Crimes Summit" on Thursday, June 12, 2008, from 5:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. at the Joan B. Kroc Institute for Peace and Justice on the University of San Diego Campus - Please register early as seating is limited  - Refreshments served from 5:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m.

To download a faxable registration form, visit:

http://www.osmelink.org/messages2005/United.pdf

Fax the completed form to: 619-236-6423


There has been an alarming increase in hate motivated crimes in San Diego.  Residents have been victimized by numerous hate motivated crimes.  Places of worship and schools have been vandalized.  Property has been destroyed.  People have been humiliated and injured. 

“Hate crime” is a clearly defined term in the existing law that means “a criminal act committed, in whole or in part” because of the victim’s actual or perceived disability, gender, nationality, race, ethnicity, religion or sexual orientation.

According to the 2007 FBI report on hate crimes, there was a 25 percent increase in hate crime reports for the city and 32 percent in the county.  The California Attorney General’s Office, which tallies similar statistics for the state, reported that there was an increase by 23 percent from 2005-2006. 

According to reports, the number of hate crime offenses reported against Hispanics in San Diego County tripled from 2005 to 2006, and that more hate crimes were reported against Hispanics in 2006 than in any of the last five years where hate crimes reported against Hispanics had remained fairly level between 2002 and 2004.

This prompted 52 faith leaders, community leaders, and organizations to form a coalition called, United for a Hate Free San Diego. This coalition has been meeting regularly since November of 2007 in response to a growing trend of hate motivated behavior in San Diego communities. The United for a Hate Free San Diego coalition wanted to build an interfaith leadership on this issue striving for justice and peace.

The message of hate can be countered with a faith-based message.  We believe it is possible to speak to the goodness in peoples' hearts and humanize the messages we all share. We wish to educate the public about the increase in hate crimes and strive to build a hate free San Diego. The goal for the United for a Hate Free San Diego is to reduce the number of hate crimes that negatively impact so many people in our communities.  

On June 12th, 2008, United For a Hate Free San Diego, a coalition of faith and community leaders, will host its 1st Hate Crimes Summit.  There is no cost to attend the event, but, registration is required.  Contact Connie Hernandez, City of San Diego Human Relations Commission, at (619) 236-6420 to register.

The purpose of this event is threefold: 1) Awareness: Hate crimes are rising, 2) Education: We are all impacted by these crimes, what happens in one community affects us all, and 3) Action: You can be part of the solution.

The summit will feature keynote speaker Heidi Beirich, Ph.D., Deputy Director,
Intelligence Project, Southern Poverty Law Center.  Also speaking at the event, Ricardo Griswold Del Castillo, Professor and Chair, Chicana and Chicano Studies, San Diego State University.  There will also be testimonials of victims of hate motivated incidents as well as a “Call to Action” led by Reverend Robert Ard to sign declaration for a Hate-Free San Diego. 

Hate Crimes Summit
United for a Hate-free San Diego
Thursday, June 12, 2008
5:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m.
Refreshments served from 5:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m.
Joan B. Kroc Institute for Peace and Justice
University of San Diego - 5998 Alcala Park

Registration Required: http://www.osmelink.org/messages2005/united.pdf



 

 

Number 3:   Border Immersion Sponsored by the University of San Diego Center for Christian Spirituality - July 16 through July 19



BORDER
IMMERSION




The San Diego/Tijuana border offers an opportunity to experience our international
reality with its rich diversity and unique challenges.

The immersion program will include input, site visits on both sides of the border, reflection on spiritual and
theological themes evoked by border realities, and group reflection on the impact and implications of the experience.






When: July 16, 5 p.m. - July 19, 6 p.m.
Fee: $350 single room; $300 double room, per person;
$125 for commuters; USD faculty and staff half-price.

Details: Limit 12 persons. Please register by June 18, 2008.

Register: E-mail lmathewson@sandiego.edu, or call (619) 260-4784.

Please visit the Center for Christan Spirituality Web site at: http://www.sandiego.edu/ccs for more details.

 

 

Short Reports on OSM Related Issues/Events


Number 1:   "Reach Across The World - Transforming Lives Through Fair Trade" with Keynote Speaker, Jackie DeCarlo of Catholic Relief Services, was successful in so many ways...
 

 

A giant "thank you" goes out to all those who came out to the World Fair Trade Day event on May 10th!  The group had a blast, and best of all, participants had the opportunity to meet so many folks from the community with an interest in Fair Trade. 

The enthusiasm, curiosity and discussion brought so much inspiration and excitement to the day! 

And…  San Diego did it!  The official tally here in San Diego at Café Moto was 111 people – an awesome turn out!  With the help of the San Diego contingent, 12,128 people in more than 150 locations from coast-to-coast convened to set the record for the World’s Largest Ever Fair Trade Coffee Break. 

For a full-page slideshow of the SAN DIEGO World Fair Trade event, visit: http://www.flickr.com/photos/26605888@N07/sets/72157605079686018/show

The day at Cafe Moto was chock full of information, festivities, feasts, and friendship. 

It was nearly endless fair-trade fun with:

- a continental breakfast,

- endless fair trade coffee and tea generously donated by Cafe Moto,

- very informative and engaging presentation and book signing by Jackie DeCarlo,

- a great skit illustrating the concept of fair trade, from USD students,

- fabulous fair trade chocolate tasting with treats from Theo Chocolate, Alter Eco,
   Larabar, Divine Chocolate and Marcie Sweets,

- heartfelt presentations from business, faith and non-profit leaders,

- fun gift bags full of fair trade fare and information,

- fair trade shopping from Karma Market, The Purpose, The Tomorrow Project,
   Marcie Sweets, Open Door Books and Cafe Justo,

- fair trade rose bouquets just in time for Mother's Day,

- soup and bread lunch with the help from The Tomorrow Project of Catholic
   Charities and Bread and Cie,

- raffle prizes, and of course,

- The Worlds Largest Coffee Break!

We are already looking forward to next year!

 

 

 

 





Watch the Video Clip of the World’s Largest Fair Trade Coffee Break:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MzB7C9IsFI8&eurl=http://www.fairtradesd.blogspot.com/ 

 

 

Web and e-mail-based Resources


You'll want to order Dale O'leary's new book, One Man, One Woman, A Catholic's Guide to Defending Marriage from Amazon.com - If you see yourself as part of the struggle to protect marriage, this is the book for you!
 




Dale O’Leary is an award-winning journalist and an internationally known lecturer on marriage, feminism, life issues, and the Culture War. Her previous book, The Gender Agenda: Redefining Equality, has been published in three languages.






Here is what one reviewer had to say about One Man, One Woman.




"...the battle over marriage is far from over, and it is unclear which side will prevail. But for those concerned about protecting marriage and family, this book is an important part of our arsenal and deserves careful reading."
 






Order One Man, One Woman at Amazon.com today:

http://www.amazon.com/One-Man-Woman-Catholics-Defending/dp/1933184299/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1212608336&sr=8-1

 

 

 

New Local/Regional Events and Gatherings 


If you are planning an event that falls within the mission of social ministry, send the particulars four to five weeks in advance to the Office for Social Ministry via e-mail, osmelink@diocese-sdiego.org.  The OSM reserves the right to publish or not to publish any proposed event information.  We hope this will assist your local efforts to re-build a culture of life.

 

1. Attend the San Diego "Friends of Fair Trade" monthly meeting in June

San Diego Friends of Fair Trade is a coalition of non-profit organizations and congregations attempting to advance the cause of fair trade.  They work to insure that all individuals who toil, both at home and around the world, to provide consumers with commodities are paid a living wage, one that can sustain a life with dignity. 

The next SD Friends of Fair Trade meeting will be on Wednesday, June 11, 2008, at 7:00 p.m. at the Open Door Book Store on 4761 Cass St., Pacific Beach - For more information please contact Carolyn Lief at fairtradesandiego@gmail.com 

 

2. Get Acquainted with Detention Ministry in the Diocese of San Diego

Join Deacon Jim Walsh monthly for an Information and Training Seminar - The next training seminar will be held of Monday, June 9, 2008, 6:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. at the Diocesan Pastoral Center, 3888 Paducah Drive, San Diego, 92117
 
See our web site for details: www.diocese-sdiego.org/restore
 
Contact Deacon Jim Walsh for reservations or questions: 858-490-8375 or e-mail Deacon Jim jwalsh@diocese-sdiego.org

 

3. North-County prayer witness at the Carlsbad Planned Parenthood Clinic

North County parishioners meet the third Monday of every month from 10:00 to 10:30 a.m. to peacefully pray the rosary in front of the Carlsbad Planned Parenthood Clinic.  The clinic is located at 1820 Marron Rd. (in the shopping center just west of Plaza Camino Real Mall).  For more information contact Jahna White of St. Margaret Parish at 760-586-6356.


4. Prayerful witness for life at two locations (7340 Miramar Road in San Diego and 15546 Pomerado Road in Poway) in San Diego County

Special Notice  -  New Location for Family Planning Associates

Helpers of God’s Precious Infants weekly rosary prayer vigil from 8:30 a.m. to 11:30 a.m. every Saturday and Wednesday at 7340 Miramar Road, directly above Metro Flooring in the complex with the Pyramid Building, adjacent to Carroll Road.  Prayer warriors also needed as early as 7:30 a.m. 

Call Sue Lopez 619/990-1341 for more information.
 
Second Saturday of the month:  20 decades of the Rosary are prayed in procession past 4 clinics following the 7:30 a.m. Mass, 15546 Pomerado Road, Poway.  For more information, call 858-748-2109.


5. St. Dismas Guild sponsors two weekly hours of prayer for the unborn in North County

Join members of St. Dismas Guild for a rosary picket at Womancare, 120 S. Craven Way, San Marcos, (across from Cal State San Marcos), Tuesdays, 9-10 a.m.

The Guild also sponsors prayer (the rosary) in front of PayLess at Mission Avenue and Escondido Blvd. 347 W. Mission on Thursdays, 10:30-11:30 a.m.  For information on these prayer vigils, call 760-751-8541. 


6. St. John the Evangelist Parish in Encinitas Pro-Life Mass and Rosary held on the first Monday of each month

The first Monday of every month is designated Pro-Life Monday at St. John the Evangelist Church, 1001 Encinitas Blvd, Encinitas.  The 8:00 a.m. Mass will be followed by a Rosary for Life.  For more information, please call Helene McIlhon at 858-756-0622.


7. Most Precious Blood Parish Rosary Prayer Vigils held on Wednesdays each week

The Pro-Life Prayer Group from Most Precious Blood sponsors a Rosary Prayer Vigil in front of the Clinica Medica abortion facility at 1550 Broadway, Chula Vista every Wednesday at 8:45 a.m.  For more information, please call Shirley Henry at 619-420-7096 or Luis Mendoza at 619-300-5563.
 

8. The ministry associated with the Clinica Medica abortion facility in Chula Vista is seeking sidewalk counselors  - training will be provided

Please contact Luis Mendoza, a Missionary of The Gospel of Life Lay Associate, at 619-300-5563, with questions or to share interest in this ministry.


9. There is a new Planned Parenthood facility located at 1685 East Main, just off the Greenfield Drive exit in El Cajon - join friends and neighbors in prayer

According to the PP website, chemical (RU-486) abortions only are done at this location - not surgical abortions.  They do refer women for abortions to their surgical center on First Ave.  Join the group each Saturday from 9:00 a.m. to 11:00 a.m. Contact: Debbie 619-933-7776.


10.   The Goretti Group offers chastity prayer and speaker training monthly

Every First Friday of the month: Culture of Life Praise and Prayer at Our Lady of the Rosary, Giovanni Room, 7:00 p.m.  -  Praise the Lord to live music, join in praying the rosary, and hear a witness on living the virtue of chastity!

Every Second Monday of the month: ChasteMasters Meeting at Our Lady of the Rosary, Giovanni Room, 7:00 p.m.  -  Please join us in prayer, a roundtable discussion, and providing feedback as chastity speakers refine their talks.

For more info please visit: www.thegorettigroup.org or call David at: 619-733-8439

 

Watch for OSM e-link bulletin #69 around Friday, July 18, 2008   
 

 

Article/Statement for June 5, 2008


From the Family Leader Network:

http://familyleader.net/


10 Attorney Generals Seek A Stay on California's Same-Sex Marriage Ruling










by Maurine Proctor

Posted May 31, 2008

Ten Attorneys General filed a brief late Thursday asking the California Supreme Court to stay the May 15 ruling legalizing same-sex marriage.  The AGs of Alaska, Colorado, Florida, Idaho, Michigan, Nebraska,  New Hampshire, South Carolina, South Dakota and Utah asked that the ruling be stayed until after the November election when California's voters will vote on an amendment which could overturn the court's decision.  That ten state attorneys general have filed this brief demonstrates the huge ramifications of implementing the ruling prior to November's vote.  

Unlike Massachusetts,  California does not have a residency requirement for obtaining a marriage license, so same-sex couples from everywhere in the country could come to the state, get married, and go back and cause legal havoc in their own states.

"We reasonably believe an inevitable result of such 'marriage tourism' will be a steep increase in litigation of the recognition issue in our courts," Utah Attorney General Mark L. Shurtleff wrote in the brief submitted on behalf of the 10 states.

The brief makes these points:

● The ten attorneys general affirmed that nationwide legal chaos will erupt if California exports the state's unresolved marriage issue beyond its borders.

The ten attorneys general affirmed that nationwide legal chaos will erupt if California exports the state's unresolved marriage issue beyond its borders.

● If the marriage amendment passes, California same-sex "marriages" will still be litigated in many other states despite the fact that Californians will have chosen not to redefine marriage.

● The State of California should not inflict this widespread confusion and litigation on other states before its own law is settled.

●  The opposition's demand that the decision be implemented before the people have a chance to vote demonstrates a disrespect for the people and the democratic process.

The Supreme Court has until the close of business on June 16 to decide on the stay request, but it also could give itself a 60-day extension to consider the matter. If the court does not grant the stay, local officials can begin issuing marriage licenses to same-sex couples on June 17.