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Dear e-link Member,
We welcome the 16 new members that recently joined e-link, and as
always, we remind current members and inform new members that past
e-link bulletins and this current bulletin can be viewed at
www.osmelink.org.
You will notice a
vigorous promotion of Proposition 85 in this and in the upcoming
October e-link. This should come as no surprise. With the current
state of politics in California, it is unlikely that we will ever
have an opportunity to work on behalf of legislation that reflects
the core of the culture-of-life perspective. Working on proposition
85 could be described as an opportunity of a lifetime. In the
California Assembly and Senate, family-friendly and life-friendly
draft legislation rarely makes it past a first committee hearing.
At that point it's dead. So, let's join together to promote
parental rights, to protect the health and safety of our minor
daughters, and to safeguard the lives of our children and
grandchildren. Yes on 85!
God Bless!
     
Wednesday, September 27, 2006 OSM e-link Bulletin #23
Table of
Contents
Remarks from Kent on the denial of parents'
rights
Key
Upcoming Culture-of-Life Gatherings/Projects (please join us)
1. Join with hundreds of faithful "Witness for Life" at the 2006
"Life Chain" on
Sunday, October 1, 2006, 2:00 to 3:30 p.m. on Balboa Ave.
and Genesee
in San Diego
2. Disability Job Fair, "Jobtoberfest" set for Tuesday, October
3, 2006, at the
Balboa Park Club, 2150 West Pan American Road, 10:00 a.m. to
2:00 p.m.
3. "Immigration and Catholic Social Teaching" a special
presentation by Fr. Peter
Ruggere, director of the diocesan Missions Office, to be
sponsored by
St. James Parish in Solana Beach on Sunday, October 22, from
7:00 p.m. to
9:00 p.m., 625 South Nardo Ave.
4. Office for Social Ministry to hold Holy Hour of Adoration
with Bishop Cordileone
presiding on Tuesday, October 17, from 7:00 p.m. to 8:30
p.m. at the
diocesan Pastoral Center, 3888 Paducah Drive, San Diego
Short Reports on Office for Social
Ministry Related Issues/Events
- Life Perspectives unveiled its new Whole Life Curriculum at
the Pastoral Center
on August 24, 2006, providing lesson plans and a practice
lesson with diocesan
religious educators and culture of life coordinators
- The San Diego Chapter of California People of Faith Working
Against the Death
Penalty provided a forum on the Death Penalty, "An Eye for
and Eye?" for San
Diego clergy on September 20, 2006
Advocacy Request X
2
- Please send the "Proof is on Tape" web-site link to the to
all your friends and
neighbors and ask them to support Proposition 85
- In recognition of Domestic Violence Month, we ask that you
round up your
used cell phones and donate them to families experiencing
domestic
violence. Drop-off locations are listed below
Advocacy Reportback
- No reportback this month
Web and
e-mail-based Resources
- Many Roman Catholics have never visited the Official Vatican
web site. It's
time we all enrich ourselves with this experience
Local and Regional
Events/Gatherings/Projects
1. Come celebrate a Mass for all those affected by abortion on
Wednesday,
October 4 at 6:00 p.m. at St. John the Evangelist Parish,
1638 Polk Avenue, San
Diego, 92103-2622
2. BIRTHLINE OF SAN DIEGO COUNTY, INC. will have a "WALK FOR
LIFE" on
Saturday, October 14 at three locations in San Diego
County
3. North-County prayer witness at the Carlsbad Planned
Parenthood Clinic
scheduled for every third Wednesday of the month from
10:00 to 10:30 a.m.
4. Prayerful witness for life at two locations in San Diego
County - every
Saturday at Sixth and Palm in San Diego and every second
Saturday of
the month at Pomerado Road in Poway
5. St. Dismas Guild sponsors two weekly hours of prayer for
the unborn in
North County
6. St. Rose of Lima Parish sponsors a regular Wednesday
Pro-Life Prayer Vigil in
Chula Vista after the 8:00 a.m. Mass
7. St. John the Evangelist Parish in Encinitas Pro-Life Mass
and Rosary held on
the first Monday of each month
8. Most Precious Blood Parish Rosary Prayer Vigils held on
Wednesdays each
week at 8:45 a.m. (Saturday Prayer Vigils have been
cancelled)
9. The ministry of prayer and sidewalk counseling at the
Clinica Medica abortion
facility in Chula Vista is seeking sidewalk counselors
for Wednesday mornings
Article/Statement for September 27,
2006
- What should our attitude be concerning the unplanned
pregnancies of
of unmarried women? Amy Laura Hall writes, "We
are called to encourage sexual
discipline outside and inside of marriage, while also
affirming, in the very same breath, that
no pregnancy is outside of God's reach." Learn how this
profound insight is changing how
we talk to youth about human sexuality. From
Christianity Today Online
Remarks from Kent Peters
It is with a heavy heart that I contemplate
the weeks leading up to the November election
How unfathomably sad it is that Planned Parenthood and the
abortion "rights" community will spend several millions
of dollars in the coming weeks to successfully convince hundreds of
thousands of our fellow citizens that minor girls are presently safe
in the hands of abortionists, and that Proposition 85 would unravel
that zone of safely.
In fact, the exact opposite is true. For years, California
abortionists have been performing abortions on minors without the
knowledge or consent of their parents. These secret abortions have
covered up the fact that many of these young girls, some as young as
10 and 11, were impregnated by men many years older than their
victims, and rarely, if ever, have reports of incest or statutory
rape been made following these surgical procedures. The abortion
industry in California has, in fact, provided cover for rapists,
rapists who prey on our children.
If you find this hard to believe, please listen to just a few of the
taped conversations with abortion providers that we are making
available below. Each recording involves a young woman pretending
to be a 13 year old girl impregnated by a 21 year old male. She
shares this basic information with actual employees of California
abortion clinics and then requests an abortion. You won’t believe
what transpires.
http://www.traditionalvalues.org/1/pph/index2.php
Sadness, anger, and a willingness to work diligently on behalf of
Proposition 85 are the only reasonable responses to this horrible
evil.
That abortion proponents are using "safety" and "health" as the
masthead in their anti-85 campaign is beyond comprehension. What
audacity! I ask God to spare me from their advertisements this
election season.
Please join the hundreds of thousands of Proposition 85 supporters
willing to vote for Proposition 85 and share what they’ve learned
with family, friends, neighbors and co-workers. Finally, we hope
you will support the “Yes on 85” campaign with a financial gift.
www.yeson85.net I made a
contribution online. I hope you will too.
God Bless. |
Key
Upcoming Culture-of-Life
Gatherings/Projects
Number 1:
Second Notice... Join hundreds of faithful "witness for life" at the
2006 Life Chain - Sunday, October 1, 2006, 2:00 to 3:30 p.m. on Balboa
Ave. and Genesee - Hymns, fellowship and pizza to follow at 3:45 p.m.
The 2006
Life Chain, where the Gospel meets the road…. In Clairemont, along
Balboa Avenue, between Genesee and I-805. Life Chain signs only - no
Graphic Abortion Pictures or signs. Collect signs for this important
event at the Northeast corner of Balboa & Genesee, near the Starbucks.

The Life Chain is a prayer service. Upon arrival warmly greet your
fellow Chainers and then begin to pray. As we join a thousand
LifeChains across America and Canada, let each of us trust wholly in our
Lord and not in ourselves or our numbers.
Our own
efforts have failed to end or to substantially reduce the numbers of
unborn children lost in the abortion holocaust. May God intervene with
power and mercy. May He forgive our past indifference and shallow
commitment. May he fill us with compassion that we might move the world
to embrace the unborn, their mothers, and their fathers.

Hymns,
Fellowship and Pizza will follow the Life Chain at 3:45 p.m. to 5:00
p.m. at Lindbergh Park at Ashford Drive and Eckstrom Ave. From Genesee
go east on Balboa. Turn right on Charger Blvd (just west of the
805). Immediately turn left on Eckstrom Ave and then turn right on
Ashford Drive.
For more information and to reserve a pizza, contact Sue Lopez
619-276-7525, Slopez@integrity.com
Life Chain 2006
Sunday, October 1, 2006
2:00 p.m. to 3:30 p.m.
Start at the corner of Balboa Ave. and Genesee
Hymns, Fellowship and Pizza
Sunday, October 1, 2006
3:45
p.m. to 5:00 p.m.
Lindbergh Park
Corner of Ashford Dr. and Eckstrom Ave.
Number 2: Second
Notice... Jobtoberfest, a job fair for people
with disabilities, set for Tuesday, October 3, 2006 at the Balboa Park
Club

In conjunction with National Disability Employment Awareness
Month, the San Diego Committee on Employment of People with Disabilities
presents the Jobtoberfest 2006 job fair.
Dozens of San Diego’s best employers will be vying to attract hundreds
of qualified job applicants at this annual event.
Admission
is free for job seekers to the Tuesday, October 3, 2006 event, at the
Balboa Park Club, 2150 West Pan American Road, in Balboa Park, from
10:00 a.m. to 2:00 p.m. Employers pay a nominal fee to staff a table
with recruiters and to gain access to this largely untapped pool of
highly-skilled job seekers.
Workshops and professional assistance with resume writing and
interviewing skills will be offered throughout the day. Job seekers are
encouraged to dress in professional attire and bring their resume to
meet employers of their choice.
Jobtoberfest is accessible to people with disabilities and is presented
by QUALCOMM, Marriott Hotels, and the San Diego Committee on Employment
of People with Disabilities. Jobtoberfest media supporters include the
San Diego Union-Tribune and the San Diego Community Newspaper Group.
For more information, please contact: Gale Barlow at 619-388-6807,
gbarlow@sdccd.edu.
Jobtoberfest
Tuesday, October 3, 2006
10:00 a.m. to 2:00 p.m.
Balboa Park Club
2150 Pan American Road West (map)
San Diego, CA
Number 3: "Immigration
and Catholic Social Teaching" a special presentation by Fr. Peter
Ruggere, director of the diocesan Missions Office, at St. James in
Solana Beach - October 22nd

The Church believes that current immigration laws and
policies have often led to the undermining of immigrants’ human dignity
and have kept families apart. The existing immigration system has
resulted in a growing number of persons in this country in an
unauthorized capacity, living in the shadows as they toil in jobs that
would otherwise go unfilled. Close family members of U.S. citizens and
lawful permanent residents must wait years for a visa to be reunited.
And, our nation’s border enforcement strategies have been ineffective
and have led to the death of thousands of migrants.

The U.S. Catholic Bishops do not condone unlawful entry
or circumventions of our nation’s immigration laws. The bishops believe
that reforms are necessary in order for our nation’s immigration system
to respond to the realities of separated families and labor demands that
compel people to immigrate to the United States, whether in an
authorized or unauthorized fashion.

Join Fr. Peter Ruggare to learn more about what the U.S. Bishops have to
say about the complex problem of immigration. Light refreshments will
be served. For more information contact Tom Theisen at
760-944-9410.
"Immigration and Catholic Social Teaching" Fr. Peter Ruggere
Sunday, October 22, 2006 - 7:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m.
Saint James Catholic Church
625 South, Nardo Ave.
Solana Beach, California
Mapquest Map of St. James in Solana Beach
4. Office for Social Ministry to
hold Holy Hour of Adoration in honor of Respect Life Month 2006

In honor of Respect Life Month, the Office for Social
Ministry is sponsoring a special Holy Hour of Adoration to promote a
Culture of Life. Bishop Salvatore Cordileone will preside. The
event
will take place on Tuesday, October 17, 2006 from 7:00 p.m. to 8:30 p.m.
at the Pastoral Center Chapel, 3888 Paducah Drive in San Diego.
Please join us in praying for the passage of Prop 85 and the advancement
of a Culture of Life!
Holy Hour of Adoration
Tuesday, October 17, 2006
7:00 p.m. to 8:30 p.m.
Diocesan Pastoral Center
3888 Paducah Drive
San Diego, CA
for information contact Joseph at 858-490-8323
Short
Reports on OSM Related Issues/Events
Number 1: Life Perspectives Unveils
its new Whole Life Curriculum at Diocesan Event - Anyone can review
samples of the curriculum at www.wholelifecurriculum.com
The Culture of Life Coordinators gathered for their quarterly meeting at
the Pastoral Center on August 24, 2006. Two representatives from Life
Perspectives, Director Michaelene Fredenburg, and Curriculum Development
Speaker Linda Noble, presented the organizations new respect life
curriculum
for grades Kindergarten – Grade Six.
Parish Culture of Life Coordinators as well as teachers, catechists and
principals were given and overview of the curriculum and then lead
through a sample 1st grade lesson (see photo at left).
The Whole Life Curriculum was
developed as an aid in teaching children about the sanctity of life,
purity and social justice. Those who attended the meeting were given a
coupon for the free download of the curriculum. The curriculum is now
available to all for a nominal fee. For more details see the website
for further explanation and samples:
www.wholelifecurriculum.com
or contact Life Perspectives at 619-516-1236.

Number 2: California People of
Faith Working Against the Death Penalty sponsored a workshop for San
Diego clergy on September 20, 2006 - "An Eye for and Eye?" San Diego
Clergy Reflect on the Death Penalty
Article by Dr. Michael Peddecord,
Professor Emeritus,
Graduate School of Public Health, San Diego State University
More that 40 area clergy took part in the September 20th workshop
entitled “An Eye for an Eye? - San Diego Clergy Reflect on the Death
Penalty.” The local chapter of California People of Faith Working
Against the Death Penalty organized the event. After an opening prayer,
the systematic legal problems in the California death penalty trial and
appeals process was documented by Marjorie Cohn, professor at the Thomas
Jefferson School of Law.
A panel of clergy and scholars described the positions of several
faiths on the death penalty. Rev. Scott Richardson, Dean of St. Paul’s
Saints Episcopal Cathedral, reminded us that the death penalty could be
viewed as contrary to the tenets of Christian love and redemption. He
described the current worldwide Anglican opposition to the death penalty
as the result of an evolution that is based on tradition, review of
scripture and
prayerful
reflection.
Panel Presenters: Rev. Scott Richardson, Professor
Khaleel Mohammed, Rabbi Alexis Pearce, and Dr. Terence McGoldrick
Professor Khaleel Mohammed of the Religious Studies department at San
Diego State University, who is a practicing Muslim, acknowledged the
variety of beliefs regarding the death penalty across the Muslims and
predominately Islamic countries. He expresses the consensus of many
Islamic leaders and scholars that the support for the death penalty is
largely the result of a literal interpretation of selected passages in
the Koran. Pointing out the importance of reflection on context of any
sacred text, he expressed the belief that when the entire Koran was read
and understood, that the death penalty was counter to the forgiveness,
brotherhood and mutual support that characterized the teachings of
Mohammad.
Dr. Terence McGoldrick, an adjunct faculty member in Ethics and Theology
at the University of San Diego and a Business Ethics consultant,
outlined the evolution of Catholic teaching. The current
opposition
to the death penalty is a reflection of the sanctity of life in all of
its forms. Catholic opposition was particularly visible under Pope John
Paul II.
Rabbi Alexis Pearce, emeritus spiritual leader of Congregation Dor
Hadash, reminded us that the oft used call for an “Eye for an Eye” has
nothing to do with any theological support or rationale for the death
penalty. Jewish historical tradition, both ancient and modern, has
contributed to opposition to the death penalty. Rabbi Pearce also
pointed out that Jesus of Nazareth was only one of many hundreds of
Jewish rabbis who were executed by the Romans during that particularly
bloody period in Jewish history. Current Jewish belief, which is
clearly in opposition to the death penalty, is based on Talmudic
teachings and rules which were codified long before the Roman conquest
of Israel. While the Hebrew Scriptures include examples where God
inflects death on the enemies of his chosen people, it is common Jewish
wisdom that imposition of the death penalty is the province of the
almighty and not of fallible humans. While the Talmud does not ban
executions, it includes very strict procedural rules that protect
citizens and all but preclude capital punishment. These protections are
reflected in current Israeli law.
The panel was followed by featured Speaker, Pastor Billy Neal Moore
(photo at left). Rev. Moore, recounted some
of
the key events of his 16 plus on Georgia’s death row. He described his
remorse for the robbery-murder of a 77-year-old man. He confessed to
the murder which he committed while drunk and was given the death
penalty in a rural Georgia county. In prison, he wrote letters to the
victim’s family apologizing for his crime. The family was so moved by
his sincere sorrow that they forgave him and regarded it their Christian
duty to spare his life. While obtaining stays of execution in the
federal courts, it was eventually the parole board that commuted Billy’s
death sentence to life in prison. He recounted the support of many
people of faith throughout his ordeal as well as the unexpected
intervention of Mother Teresa who told the Georgia parole board that
they must find in their hearts to “do what Jesus would do.” The parole
board did, his death sentence commuted to life in prison and he was
eventually paroled in 1991. He worked at a variety of jobs until he was
ordained as a Pentecostal minister and undertook his present ministry
which is to show that the death penalty is no solution to crime. His
mission to abolish the death penalty has taken him all over the United
States. His book, I Shall Not Die: Seventy-Two Hours on Death Watch is
a compelling story of faith and hope amid the inhumanities of the death
penalty and our prison system.
Co-chairs of the CPF leadership committee, Kent Peters (MC) and
Ronnie Friedman-Barone kept the events moving. Other CPF members who
helped organize the workshop were on hand to learn, and provide
resources to support future efforts by clergy. CPF members involved in
planning included Jennifer Bonakdar, Rev. Anthony Currin, Tim Spann,
Joseph Horejs, Michael Peddecord, Carol Ann Goldstein, and Carleen
Johnson.
Rev. Moore’s book and a list of
resources are available from the Office of Social Ministry -
858-490-8323. The statewide CPF website is
www.californiapeopleoffaith.org. The local
email contact is Michael Peddecord at
cpfsd@cox.net.
e-link
Advocacy REQUEST X 2

Life Request:
We must get the word out!
Please visit the "Proof is on Tape" web page and listen to the recorded
conversations between a young woman posing as a 13 year girl who is
impregnated by a 21 year old man and the staff members of California
abortion facilities. Then send that link to all your friends, neighbors
and family members, asking them to support Proposition 85.
http://www.traditionalvalues.org/1/pph/index2.php
Following is
wording you might like to cut-and-paste into your e-mail.
I've just listened to some
incredible conversations between a young woman posing as a 13 year old
girl and California abortion clinic staff members. She explains that
her pregnancy was caused by a 21 year old male boyfriend and
then requests abortion information, asking specifically if her parents
will be told about the pregnancy or the abortion. You won't believe how
the clinic staff members respond. You need to hear it for yourself. Go
to:
http://www.traditionalvalues.org/1/pph/index2.php
Thanks. I hope you will join me in
supporting Proposition 85 by sending this web link to all those in your
e-mail address book asking your friends to send this link to their
friends.
Thank you
for supporting Proposition 85 in this way.

Dignity Request:
October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month.
Relationship violence is a serious problem adversely impacting millions
of men, women, and children. Though seldom discussed in terms of
relationship violence, paternity fraud, parental alienation, and false
accusations are life-threatening forms of relationship violence.
Hundreds of American and International studies clearly establish that
relationship violence is not specific to age, race, religion, gender,
sexual preference, or economic status.
One way to raise awareness and help a victim of domestic violence is to
donate your old cell phones. The deactivated cell phones are provided
for victims of domestic violence who may encounter emergency
situations. Phones that are not distributed for emergency use can be
sold by shelters or agencies to help fund work to end domestic violence.
If you have a cell phone that you wish to donate you may drop it off
at any one of the Center for Community Solutions locations or if you are
a Verizon Wireless customer at any one of their locations.
Center for Community Solutions
Coastal Location:
4508 Mission Bay Drive
San Diego, CA 92109
858-272-5777
East County Location:
7339 El Cajon Blvd. Suite J
La Mesa, CA 91941
619-697-7477
North County Location:
106 Grape Street
Escondido, CA 92025
(760) 747-6282
e-link Advocacy REPORTBACK
No reports this month
Web and
e-mail-based Resources
It you haven't, it's time to visit the Vatican, via the web that is.
You'll be able to spend hours on this site with its rich history and
full complement of documents.
Please enjoy your visit.

http://www.vatican.va/phome_en.htm
New
Local/Regional Events and
Gatherings
If you are planning an event that falls within the mission of social
ministry, send the particulars four to five weeks in advance to the
Office for Social Ministry via e-mail,
osmelink@diocese-sdiego.org.
The OSM reserves the right to publish or not to publish any proposed
event information. We hope this will assist your local efforts to
re-build a culture of life.
1. Abortion leaves many casaulties in its wake: mothers,
fathers, grandparents, friends, spouses, siblings, children... Many
express a need to experience healing
Come celebrate a Mass for all those affected by abortion on
Wednesday, October 4 at 6:00 p.m. at St. John the Evangelist Parish,
1638 Polk Avenue, San Diego, 92103-2622
2. BIRTHLINE OF SAN DIEGO COUNTY, INC. will have a "WALK FOR
LIFE" on Saturday, October 14 at three locations in San Diego County
Walks will take place at, 1) Mission Bay Park DeAnza Cove North
from 8:00 a.m. to 10:00 a.m., 2) Rohr Park 4548 Sweetwater Rd., Chula
Vista from 8:00 a.m. to 10:00 a.m, and 3) St. Therese 6016 Camino Rico
San Diego, CA (at the corner of College Ave. & Navaho Dr.) starting at
8:30 a.m. All donations support the generous work fo and free services
at Birthline of San Diego County.
Walkers are needed to walk and recruit sponsors. For more information
and registration materials contact Birthline at 858-270-2491.
3. North-County prayer witness at the Carlsbad Planned
Parenthood Clinic
North County parishioners meet the third Monday of every month
from 10:00 to 10:30 a.m. to peacefully pray the rosary in front of the
Carlsbad Planned Parenthood Clinic. The clinic is located at 1820
Marron Rd. (in the shopping center just west of Plaza Camino Real
Mall). For more information contact Jahna White of St. Margaret Parish
at 760-586-6356.
4. Prayerful witness for life at two locations (Sixth and Palm
in San Diego and Pomerado Road in Poway) in San Diego County
Helpers of God’s Precious Infants weekly rosary prayer vigil from
8:30 a.m. to 11:30 a.m. every Saturday at Family Planning Associates
2850 Sixth Ave, at Palm, across from Balboa Park. Prayer warriors also
needed as early as 7:30 a.m.
Call Sue Lopez 619/990-1341 for more information.
2nd Saturday of the month: 20 decades of the Rosary are prayed in
procession past 4 clinics following the 7:30 a.m. Mass, 15546 Pomerado
Road, Poway. For more information, call 858-748-2109.
5. St. Dismas Guild sponsors two weekly hours of prayer for the
unborn in North County
Join members of St. Dismas Guild for a rosary picket at Womancare,
120 S. Craven Way, San Marcos, (across from Cal State San Marcos),
Tuesdays, 9-10 a.m.
The Guild also sponsors prayer (the rosary) in front of PayLess at
Mission Avenue and Escondido Blvd. 347 W. Mission on Thursdays,
10:30-11:30 a.m. For information on these prayer vigils, call
760-751-8541.
6. St. Rose of Lima sponsors a regular Thursday Pro-Life
Prayer Vigil in Chula Vista
Please join St. Rose of Lima parishioners every Thursday after the 8
a.m. Mass at St. Rose of Lima, Chula Vista, for a pro-life prayer vigil
at the clinic located at 261 Church Street, Chula Vista. For more
information, call Evangely Aliangan, 619-427-0230.
7. St. John the Evangelist Parish in Encinitas Pro-Life Mass and
Rosary held on the first Monday of each month.
The first Monday of every month is designated Pro-Life Monday at St.
John the Evangelist Church, 1001 Encinitas Blvd, Encinitas. The 8:00
a.m. Mass will be followed by a Rosary for Life. For more information,
please call Helene McIlhon at 858-756-0622.
8. Most Precious Blood Parish Rosary Prayer Vigils held on
Wednesdays each week
The Pro-Life Prayer Group from Most Precious Blood sponsors a Rosary
Prayer Vigil in front of the Clinica Medica abortion facility at 1550
Broadway, Chula Vista every Wednesday at 8:45 a.m. For more
information, please call Shirley Henry at 619-420-7096 or Luis Mendoza
at 619-300-5563.
9. The ministry associated with the Clinica Medica abortion
facility in Chula Vista is seeking sidewalk counselors for Wednesday
mornings - training will be provided
The CLINICA MEDICA abortion facility in Chula Vista is now
performing abortions on Wednesday mornings. Please contact Luis
Mendoza, a Missionary of The Gospel of Life Lay Associate, at
619-300-5563, with questions or to share interest in this ministry.
Watch for OSM e-link bulletin #53
around Tuesday, October 24, 2006
Article/Statement for September 27, 2006
From:

Christianity Today, September 2006

THE CHRISTIAN VISION PROJECT
For Shame?
Why Christians should welcome, rather than
stigmatize, unwed mothers and their children.
by Amy Laura Hall | posted 09/15/2006 09:30
a.m.
Margaret Sanger, the founder of Planned
Parenthood, had a way with words. In 1922, she wrote a book chapter
titled "The Cruelty of Charity." Charity toward the poor, especially
toward poor immigrants, she opined, only "encourages the healthier and
more normal sections of the world to shoulder the burden of unthinking
and indiscriminate fecundity of others, which brings with it … a dead
weight of human waste."
In an age when upstanding
Congregationalists and Unitarians were urging Americans to produce Fewer
and Better Babies (Eugenics Publishing House, 35th edition, 1929),
Sanger was in step with the times. By mid-century, most mainstream
Protestant leaders agreed that the nation needed to calibrate carefully
the number and type of babies—and
immigrants—allowed.
One central means for ensuring the
careful calibration of procreation was shame. Indeed, the author of
Fewer and Better Babies anticipated that working-class parents who
produced more than two children would eventually be considered
"anti-social, as criminal members of the community." The
anti-immigration and birth-control movements during the first half of
the 20th century were linked by the sense that some people were beneath
human dignity and would pollute "native stock American" bloodlines. The
growing consensus during this era was summed up by the words of a
Methodist clergyman from Missouri, writing for the Methodist Quarterly
Review: "We should demand that each child born is worthy of a place in
our midst."
Yet the most blatant use of shame I have
found in my work on the history of reproduction and domesticity in the
U.S. does not come from the eugenicists of 60 years ago. It comes from
the National Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy, a 21st-century effort.
Pictures posted in high schools and featured in teen magazines show a
Latina girl with "CHEAP" emblazoned across her body. The African
American girl is labeled "REJECT," the Asian girl "DIRTY," and the
working-class white girl "NOBODY." The very fine print places these
labels in a different context—recommending
"cheap" condoms, for example. But the overwhelming effect of the design
is bold-print humiliation, suggesting that teenage mothers are cheap,
dirty nobodies, social rejects with no future and with little hope for
their children. The stark photos are reminiscent of social-hygiene
posters from the eugenic era, cultivating a potent combination of
disdain and fear.
Possibly the most troubling of the
posters features a white boy whose sexual activity resulted in an
unexpected pregnancy. He is labeled "USELESS," and the fine print reads:
"My scholarship is USELESS. Now I need a job to support my baby." Taken
together, the posters convey a deeply problematic message. The college
boy who leaves behind his scholarship to take care of the CHEAP REJECT's
baby is USELESS.
The board of directors for the National
Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy includes CEOs from major corporations
and leaders from both political parties, representing a broad consensus
across the United States, as well as leading members of the black and
Hispanic communities. The urgency of eliminating teenage pregnancy is
one of the few matters on which conservatives and liberals agree, and
the stakes are deemed sufficiently high to warrant the use of brute
shame.
Sexy Doublespeak
Another national campaign to prevent teen
pregnancy is sponsored by the Candie's Foundation, linked to a trendy
line of handbags, sunglasses, bikinis, and sandals. The foundation's
website speaks a predictable, nonsensical language of free-flowing,
responsible sex appeal. "Think of what you can achieve if you don't
conceive"—this
runs as a refrain as various celebrities vogue for the camera. Candie's
encourages viewers to "be sexy" (no doubt with the aid of Candie's
accessories), but not to have sex. This directive is always followed
with a caveat: If you do have sex, use birth control, or else you will
suffer "the devastating consequences."
One public service announcement produced
by Candie's makes it clear that the consequence that can render sex
devastating is, in fact, a human life. With a young couple about to "do
this" in the back seat of a car, former Playboy model Jenny McCarthy
arrives to deliver a crying baby into the girl's arms. The boy exits the
car in a hurry. Jenny leaves, too, sneering at the girl with knowing
disgust. "Welcome to reality," are her departing words. The girl is left
holding the crying baby, alone, clearly frightened, in the back seat of
the car.
Is this truly reality—a
world where teenage mothers who conceive are abandoned to "devastating
consequences"? Perhaps. I sometimes think so when I hear stories of
evangelical families who cannot bear the shame of an unplanned
pregnancy, as I read thinly veiled warnings in the media about the
growing number of young, Latina mothers in the U.S., and as I dig
through the archives of meticulously planned reproduction as marketed to
mid-20th-century Americans. Throughout that history of planning and
parenthood, the word illegitimate bears multiple layers of stigma and
shame.
But I have come to believe that
Christians are called to be a counterculture for the common good in no
small part by refusing to declare any life in our midst illegitimate.
Risky Commitment
Christians are called to a very different
kind of double-speak from Candie's bikini-chastity chic. We are called
to encourage sexual discipline outside and inside of marriage, while
also affirming, in the very same breath, that no pregnancy is outside of
God's reach.
This does not mean that Christians cannot
say it would have been preferable had this young woman not shared
herself intimately with a boy who hardly knew how to appreciate the
intricate beauty of her body and the vulnerability of her love.
Christians are surely called to teach girls and young women that their
bodies are not primarily "in waiting" for sex with a man, but rather
actively in service today for the work of the Holy Spirit. But as we
affirm the blessings of holy chastity, we must also consider the
incipient life embedded inside an image-bearer of God as within the
purview of God's providence. A young couple's coupling in the backseat
is morally barren (even if ultimately procreative), because it is
outside the sacramental gift of marriage. Yet the pregnancy conceived by
such a couple in the backseat (even if it is ill-conceived) is well
within the reach of God's profligate grace.
During the last century in the United
States, many mainline Protestant leaders, committed to the eugenics
movement, deemed it their business to determine which births were with
the grain of God's plan for the evolving progress of human history and
which births were a drag on the movement forward. Christians are called
to more humility and more confidence than that—more
humility about the grievous harm that has been done in the name of
social progress, and more confidence in God's ability to turn even
regrettable human choices to good.
Happily, many Christian churches are
already offering a different "welcome to reality" than the one offered
by Jenny McCarthy. These congregations, neighborhoods, and kinship
networks name the girls in the poster shame-campaign to be children of
promise, worthy recipients of hands-on care and communal sacrifice. They
refuse the calculus of life that draws a distinction between accidental
and providential babies, between the right sorts of people and those
sorts of people with teenage mothers.
There are such congregations, but I
believe that, in answer to God's call, there could be many more.
Such advocacy, born of holy double-speak,
is a stretch for many in my cohort of Christianity. But it is not so
much a stretch for many African American congregations and Latino
Catholic communities. It is my prayer that more mainstream evangelicals,
in both "red" America and "blue" America, will cross over into risky
solidarity with a third color of Americans.
We could do so by advocating for and
working within alternative high schools where pregnant girls may
continue their education. We could work for maternity leave and flexible
schedules at all levels of education and enterprise, especially at
institutions overtly committed to Christian witness. To be a people
committed to the incalculable gift of life may mean myriad commitments
that interrupt our plans for our own families. It may mean that a young
couple without children find themselves babysitting a child not their
blood kin several evenings a week, rather than watching their favorite
science fiction series on DVD. A single man may find himself fixing a
young single mother's clogged sink on a lunch break or building her
toddler a swing set during a holiday weekend. For many mothers and
fathers, it may mean adapting their entire life and career to care daily
for an unexpected grandchild. And by my own political reckoning,
witnessing for the common good not only means hands-on local action, but
also advocating for systematic acts of mercy through a matrix of
services to offer single mothers a safety net of care.
After hearing me give a talk on abortion,
eugenics, and teenage pregnancy, my oldest daughter, with whom I had not
yet initiated a talk about birds and bees, looked up at me and said
frankly, "Mom, if God gives me a baby before I am married, I won't
worry. I know that you and Dad would take care of it so that I could
stay in school."
After taking a deep breath and squeezing
back tears of sheer parental terror, I agreed that she was right, that
we would help her and her baby no matter what. I pray that the situation
will not arise, but I also pray that should it arise, her father and I,
as well as the congregation into which she has been baptized, will be
worthy of her confidence, for to fail her would be contrary to who we
hope to be. To fail her would be the true shame.
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