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Dear OSM e-link Member,
Membership reached 764 this afternoon. We welcome new members
and hope that, together, we are able to profoundly advance a
culture of life in Imperial and San Diego Counties.
Please remember
to vote on November 2nd. In reality, it's a duty, given we are
graced with the ability to shape the government and policies
that will ultimately rule our land.
As always, we remind current members and inform new members that
past e-link bulletins and this current bulletin can be viewed at
www.osmelink.org.
God Bless!
     
Friday, October 29, 2004 OSM e-link
Bulletin #28
Table of Contents
Remarks from Bishop Robert H. Brom on
Taking a Stand When Voting
Key Upcoming Culture-of-Life
Gatherings/Projects (please join us)
- Culture of Life Celebration and Mass in El Centro set for
Saturday, October 30,
2004, 9:00 to Noon, with Bishop Cordileone presiding
Short Reports on Office for Social
Ministry Related Issues/Events
- Surprise 10-year celebration for Rachel's Hope
- Interfaith Committee for Worker Justice Annual Benefit
Breakfast, Tuesday,
October 19, 2004, Voices for Justice
- Culture of Life Family Services Banquet held on
Sept. 25, 2004 a huge success
Advocacy
Request
- We simply ask that each eligible voter do just that,
VOTE, on Tuesday,
November 2nd, 2004. Thank you!
Advocacy Reportback
- Three members report back on their efforts to defeat
Prop. 71
Web and
e-mail-based Resources
- Final look at
www.noonprop71.org web site and...
- Links to three sites that will help Catholic voters in
their final deliberations
Local and Regional
Events/Gatherings/Projects
- Fourth Annual Candlelight Memorial Service for the
homeless men and women
who have died alone on San Diego streets, November 1,
5:30 p.m. to 6:30 p.m.
Article/Statement for October 29, 2004
- Cy Kellett's article, A Tough Election Season for
Catholics
Remarks from Bishop Robert H. Brom
Taking a Stand When Voting
from an article first published in the Southern Cross on
October 21, 2004
There are various levels of truth, one of which is so
fundamental that it is pre-legal, pre-judicial, pre-political
and even pre-religious. I speak of moral truth, that is, truth
which defines an action as right or wrong, virtuous or
invirtuous for people of every race and nation, every language
and culture, believers and unbelievers alike.
Moral truth must be respected by everyone for the human race
to be human. It must, therefore, not be tampered with but
protected and promoted by legal and judicial systems, by
politicians of every party and by religious leaders of every
faith.
Without respect for moral truth, we lose the underpinnings
necessary for every worthy form of government, including
democracy, and for every system of faith. Without respect for
moral truth, the only law that will ultimately prevail will be
neither civil nor religious; it will be the law of the jungle -
survival of fittest.
Faithful citizenship, consequently, is based on a commitment
to moral truth, which we should defend and promote not because
we belong to one political party or another or simply because of
our faith. Everyone, regardless of political affiliation or
faith expression, should defend and promote moral truth because
we are human beings, and because as responsible human beings we
want the human race to be as truly and fully human as possible.
Our Catholic faith only adds to our responsibility to
champion moral truth the demands of which, in terms of embracing
what is right as opposed to what is wrong, apply to everyone
without exception. Standing up for moral truth should not be
misconstrued as imposing our faith and religious truth on
others.
Voting is an opportunity to advance the cause of humanity.
Take a long and hard look at the different candidates and
various propositions, and in your best judgment take a stand for
moral truth - the survival of human race as human depends on it. |
Key
Upcoming Culture-of-Life
Gatherings/Projects
Number 1:
Last call. Please join Bishop Salvatore Cordileone, Imperial Valley
pastors and associate pastors, staff from the Office for Social
Ministry, and guests, on October 30, 2004, in El Centro, for a Mass
to both celebrate and build the Culture of Life, followed by
presentations on crucial life issues.
Presentations will
include:
Stem cell research and cloning (Proposition 71)
Post-abortion healing (Introduction to Rachel's Hope)
Political Responsibility (Call to vote)
Birthright of El Centro (Meet the
staff)

Respect Life Mass and
Presentations
Saturday October 30, 2004
9:00 to Noon
Our Lady of Guadeloupe Church
153 East Brighton Avenue, El Centro
For more information call the Office for Social Ministry at
858-490-8327.
Short
Reports on OSM Related Issues/Events
Number 1:
Surprise, Surprise. Ten-year anniversary celebration astounds
Rosemary Benefield, founder of Rachel's Hope in San Diego.
Ten Years of After-Abortion Healing Celebrated -
Rosemary Benefield Founded Rachel's Hope in 1994
RANCHO SANTA FE - Sept. 26 marked the 10th Anniversary of San
Diego's Rachel's Hope After Abortion Healing and Reconciliation
Retreats. An event was given in honor of Rosemary Benefield, founder
and director of Rachel's Hope, who had the first retreat at Catholic
Charities 10 years ago. Shortly after, retreats were held at the
Catholic Charismatic Center in La Jolla, then onto the USD campus,
then back to a Catholic Charismatic Center, this one in Clairemont.
When this center closed, the retreats moved to the diocesan Pastoral
Center, where they continue to today.
To date, nearly 400 women have attended either the English or
Spanish retreats. Spanish retreats have been held at the Pastoral
Center and in Tecate, Mexico. Men's workshops have also been
conducted, by Jim Benefield, LMFT, for the past eight years.
The
anniversary celebration was held at Anne-Marie Boyer's home in
Rancho Santa Fe with an elegant sit-down tea. In attendance was
Auxiliary Bishop Salvatore J. Cordileone, who came to support of
Rachel's Hope Ministry. (See photo at left)
Father Patrick Waite, the first priest to minister at the retreats,
was also present. Other priests who have been involved in the
ministry were unable to attend. They are: Father Lou Fisher, Father
Jim Boyd, Msgr. Dennis Mikulanis, Father Richard Perozich and Father
Jerry Bevilacqua.
The Hope Monument, a life-size bronze sculpture depicting Jesus
sitting next to a young woman, holding her hand as he cradles her
baby, was presented to Benefield. The monument conveys a message of
hope and healing to women and men who have lost a child through
early death due to abortion, miscarriage, stillbirth or accident.
The monument is 60" high and 60" long, weighing 600
lbs. It cost $25,000. This is the 13th statue of its kind - others
have been placed all over the United States and one in Timisoara,
Romania. Beverly Paddleford sculpted the piece at her foundry in
Lander, Wyoming (see
www.hopemonument.com).
The monument has been partially financed by some donations and
primarily funded by Anne-Marie Boyer through Rachel's Hope referrals
for home real estate sales and mortgage refinancing.
"This is the biggest and best surprise I have ever had, and I am
grateful for all the love that has been poured out to me," Benefield
said. "I am honored by the grace of God to lead women into his
merciful love. The hope is that this monument will reach out with
the healing love of Jesus. This may lead them to Rachel's Hope
retreats or other After Abortion Healing Programs."
Some women present came from Tecate, Mexico where a retreat was held
last April at the Trinitarians of Mary Convent, lead by Sister
Veronica and Maria DeLaRosa. Flerida Calkins announced that she is
working on having Spanish retreats in Ecucador. One woman came in
from New Hampshire who stated "I wouldn't have missed this for the
world."
Julia Mellusi and Janet Ackerman first conceived the idea of
honoring Benefield for her ten years at the helm of Rachel's Hope.
"As a graduate of a Rachel's Hope retreat," Ackerman said, "I knew
firsthand the profound healing of her work and wanted to find a way
to mark the occasion. We invited all graduates, co-leaders and
clergy affiliated with Rachel's Hope to attend."
Ackerman said that she thinks women who have suffered abortions can
make a contribution to public awareness. "As graduates of Rachel's
Hope, I believe we have a unique ability to bridge the polarized
debate surrounding the 'right to life' issue. We know all too deeply
the destructive consequences of abortion to physical, emotional and
spiritual wholeness. At the same time, we understand the personal,
familial, economic and societal pressures at play whenever abortion
is considered. Because we have experienced the great blessing of
God's abundant forgiveness and love we are able to respond to women
involved with abortion with compassion."
A Men's Workshop will be offered Nov. 13, by Jim Benefield (858)
581-3022.
For a Spanish Retreat in San Diego, Dec. 3-5, call
Maria DeLaRosa, (619) 929-1919. Visit
www.RachelsHope.org.
Upcoming Rachel's Hope retreats for women in
English will be routinely announced in the New Local/Regional Events
and Gatherings section of e-link.
Anne-Marie Boyer of San Diego's Finest Real Estate has agreed to
donate 100% of her commissions for home real estate sales and
mortgage refinancing from Rachel's Hope referrals to the monument
fund. Those interested in making a direct contribution to the
monument fund may do so by calling (858) 756-8128.
The Southern Cross
Number 2:
Interfaith Committee for Worker Justice First Annual Breakfast was a
huge success. The following article will appear in the upcoming
edition of the Southern Cross. E-link thanks the Southern Cross for
permission to pre-publish this article.
MISSION VALLEY -- A Catholic leader, a rabbi and a
Baptist minister were all honored by the Interfaith Committee for
Worker Justice at an Oct. 19 breakfast, "not because they reflect
the order of an interfaith joke," but because they are voices for
justice in our community, said Rev. Robert Ard, before introducing
them.
Linda Arreola, assistant director of the diocesan Office for Social
Ministry, was the Catholic leader receiving the "Voices for Justice"
award, honored for supporting the committee and its campaigns to
lift up the issues of low-wage workers.
Accepting her award, Arreola told how, six years ago, when she
received her master's degree and was hired by the Social Ministry
office, her boss saw her lack of experience in social justice as a
strength, not a weakness.

(From left to right are honorees - with Jamie Gates
at center right - Linda Arreola, Rabbi Moshe Levin and Rev. Willie
Manley)
"I would be taking the position and not have any
previous agendas," she said. "And in that way, I would be able to
embrace the whole of the social mission of the Church. And so here I
am, challenged daily to help build a culture in which life and human
dignity are respected and given their rightful place."
As assistant director of the office, Arreola assists with the
direction and coordination of ministries involving issues such as
sanctity of life, immigration, worker justice, human trafficking,
political responsibility and advocacy.

(over 500 guests extend hands of blessing over Mary
Grillo, asking for continued strength and courage for her ministry
on behalf of hundreds of low-income workers on our region)
In her speech, Linda added recollections from ICWJ campaigns and
victories, and talked about the French screen saver message she has
on her computer, which, translated, says, nothing is impossible for
a courageous heart.
"What seemed impossible became possible because our hearts would not
let us give in," she said. "Let us continue to have courageous
hearts as we do God's work in making the impossible possible."
The other religious leaders honored at the breakfast were Rev.
Willie Manley, pastor of Greater Life Baptist Church, and Moshe
Levin, rabbi emeritus of Congregation Beth El. Mary Grillo,
executive director of the Service Employees International Union
2028, also received a Voices for Justice award.
The ICWJ's mission is to educate people of faith on local labor
issues and to mobilize them to improve wages, benefits and working
conditions for San Diego's low-wage workers. The Office for Social
Ministry and several Catholic parishes are members of the committee,
and Catholics -- priests, religious and laity -- consistently
participate in the committee's events.
The breakfast was the ICWJ's first fundraiser, and it raised $70,000
for the committee.
"We are thrilled about the breakfast," said Clare DiSalvo, ICWJ's
community organizer. "It brought together two communities that
aren't often in the same room -- faith and labor -- to celebrate our
common belief in justice and strengthen our relationship with each
other."
The Southern Cross
Number 3:
A message of thanksgiving for the September 25th First Annual
Feast for Life from the Culture of Life Family Services.
The Annual Feast for Life Banquet to benefit The
Culture of Life Family Services was a great success, and we want to
thank those who attended for supporting Culture of Life Family
Services. There were over 600 in attendance, coming from the Roman
Catholic community, the Caldean Catholic Community and the Maronite
Catholic Community, as well as multiple other Christian
denominations. We enjoyed traditional Caldean entertainment and
food. The people at St. Peter Cathedral Social Hall were fantastic.
The hall was beautiful, the music entertaining, and food was
delicious.

photo to left - Dr. Nick and Marya with
Fr. Frank Pavone, Director, Priests for Life
We also want to thank our special guests: Fr.
Frank Pavone, Rev. Mitchell Pacwa, Actress Catherine Hicks, and
famous radio talk show host, Mark Larson. All gave inspiring
presentations challenging us all to build a Culture of Life. We
were particularly touched by the patient testimonies, where they
described how their unborn children were saved and how
their own lives had been transformed for the better through God's
Grace at Culture of Life Family Services.
This was a great start in fundraising for the completion of our
first clinic in San Diego, near Scripps Mercy Hospital. We plan to
open this facility on December 6, 2004. This clinic will offer a
full spectrum of family medical care services including prenatal
care, counseling, and spiritual direction. We were encouraged by
the generosity of the community. Over $30,000 was raised. Thank
you for joining in our service to the poorest of the poor here in
San Diego County. We invite all to join us in this life saving
ministry. Everyone has a gift to offer and can some way help at
Culture of Life Family Services. Please contact us at
WWW.COLFS.ORG
or call (760) 735-8461.
e-link Advocacy REQUEST
This issue's
advocacy request is to simply vote.
Please report back on what this profound act of citizenship meant to
you.
For Catholics, the defense of human life and dignity is
not a narrow cause, but a way of life and a framework for action. .
. . Decisions about candidates and choices about public policies
require clear commitment to moral principles, careful discernment
and prudential judgments based on the values of our faith.
—USCCB Administrative Committee, Faithful
Citizenship: A Catholic Call to Political Responsibility, p. 12
Vote Tuesday, November 2nd!
e-link Advocacy REPORTBACK
Here are reports from three e-link members describing their action
in opposition to Proposition 71. Thanks to all for joining in this
fight to protect the smallest and most vulnerable members of our
human community! Vote NO on Prop. 71!
1) As requested, I sent out copies of the Catholic Bishops'
Statement on Prop 71 and a wonderful thing happened. My daughter is
principal of a diocesan parochial school and she displayed the
material. Then her pastor came in with a Prop 71 handout (unsure
what it was but it came from a parent concerned that no one knew
anything about this) and asked her to put it in
her weekly parents' newsletter. She asked him if she could also
enclose the bishops' statement and he said yes! My pastor has
already enclosed in our bulletin the Questions and Answers about
Stem Cell and Cloning put out by the Catholic Common Good Foundation
as well as publicizing your Stem Cell presentation with an insert.
I have given him the bishops' statement and will ask if it can be
put in the bulletin right before the election. I think it is the
best piece out there.
Diane Parente,
2) We have been doing the best we can to defeat Prop. 71 here at
St. Rose of Lima. We have distributed printed literature to
parishioners, held an informational table before and after Sunday
Masses, and had a speaker on the topic. Our priests explained the
issue at the Sunday Masses, put info on both our parish website and
bulletin, and have put up large posters on the church bulletin
boards. The word is definitely getting out about this proposition
and how we should vote. I know this because I hear parishioners
talking about it, and I have received calls from those who were
still a bit confused.
Evangely Aliangan, St. Rose of Lima, Chula Vista
3) This note is to inform you that I passed out five letters to
family and friends and it was very well received.
Patty Schwabe, St. Margaret's Catholic Church, Oceanside
Web and
e-mail-based Resources
Following
are web links to three important documents,
Faithful Citizenship (USCCB), the
Voter's Guide for Serious Catholics (Catholic Answers updated
version), and Guidelines for Catholic Voters
from Our Sunday Visitor. They can become valuable tools as you
prepare to vote on November 2nd, 2004.
http://www.usccb.org/faithfulcitizenship/index.htm Faithful Citizenship
(Provided in both English and Spanish)
http://www.catholic.com/library/voters_guide.asp Voter's
Guide for Serious Catholics

Our Sunday Visitor has also produced a detailed pamphlet entitled,
Guidelines for Catholic Voters that can be
ordered in bulk online at,
http://www.osv.com/Voting/index.asp
You may also call Our Sunday Visitor at 800-348-2440 to order
this pamphlet in bulk
New
Local/Regional Events and
Gatherings
If you are planning an event that falls within the mission of social
ministry, send the particulars four to five weeks in advance to the
Office for Social Ministry via e-mail,
osmelink@diocese-sdiego.org. The OSM reserves the right to
publish or not to publish any proposed event information. We hope
this will assist your local efforts to re-build a culture of life.
1. Third Annual Interfaith Candlelight Memorial Vigil for
the homeless who have died during the past year to be held on
November first.
The Third Annual Interfaith Candlelight Vigil will be held on
November 1, 2004 from 5:30-6:30 p.m. at the Community Concourse of
City Hall, 202 'C' Street, San Diego.
This annual memorial service will be for the 213 homeless men and
women who died alone on our streets in the last three years. These
213 men and women were buried and forgotten. They have not been
mourned or remembered. Now is the time to do so. Please come to
this event to help pay respect to 'the least of these' in our
midst. The San Diego Rescue Mission is the sponsor of this event.
For information, call 619.687.3720.
Watch for OSM e-link bulletin
#29 around Tuesday, November 23, 2004
Article/Statement for October 29, 2004
A Tough Election Season for Catholics
By Cyril Jones-Kellett
So how’s a Catholic to vote?
It has been a bitter and bruising campaign season, and for Catholics
the bruising seems to have been especially intense this year.
Among the reasons:
· George W. Bush led the United States into a war in Iraq that was
openly opposed by senior Vatican officials, and drew disappointed
comments from the pope.
· John Kerry, a Catholic, was nominated by his party on a resume
that includes repeated public support for abortion, even in its most
extreme forms.
· Add to that the fact that Kerry, on the campaign trail, says that
those who oppose the destruction of embryonic humans for research
purposes are motivated by “right-wing ideology.”
· And Bush is a noted supporter of the death penalty.
· And Kerry’s position on homosexual marriage is unclear, at best.
· And Bush kept the United States out of the International Criminal
Court.
And on and on...
All of this comes in the context of ongoing Catholic humiliation
around the issue of sexual abuse.
So American Catholics come into the election already hurting from
scandal, and now have to choose between one of their own who doesn’t
seem to share basic moral positions on prenatal life and another who
does not share the views of many Catholic leaders, probably
including the pope, on executions and war.
And there is an even deeper Catholic divide in America — between
those who regularly attend Mass and those who do not. In fact, the
largest religious group in the United States is Catholics, the
second largest is non-practicing Catholics.
According to surveys, Catholics who attend Mass at least once each
week are, by a wide margin, more likely to vote for pro-life
candidates and propositions. Those who do not attend Mass regularly
are far less likely to place heavy emphasis on abortion when voting.
To Deny Communion?
Because Senator Kerry is Catholic, pro-life Catholics have been
particularly animated this election cycle. There have been
widespread calls for bishops to deny the senator and other
“pro-choice” candidates Communion. There have been calls for bishops
to demand that their flocks not vote for anyone who is publicly in
support of the abortion license.
At times, bishops have seemed to display as much public division as
the rest of the voting public. But lost in much of the talk of what
bishops should do has been the remarkable and steady clarity of
virtually all of the U.S. bishops that abortion is a grave evil that
every public official, especially Catholics, is obligated to resist.
Most bishops have also said that Catholic public officials who
espouse the abortion license should refrain from reception of
Communion.
What they have not agreed upon is whether such people should be
actively denied Communion. This controversy is likely to go on long
after this election, but is sure to become particularly intense if
Kerry wins and becomes president.
So, How Do I Vote?
What many people seem to want is a succinct statement from Church
authorities about how a Catholic should vote.
The National Catholic Reporter, and other liberal-leaning Catholic
publications, to the degree that they want any statement from Church
authorities at all, seem to want something like: “Catholics should
consider all the issues and vote for who is right on most of them.”
More conservative publications have tended to want that statement to
be something more like: “No Catholic should ever vote for anyone who
is pro-abortion.”
The problem with such approaches is that they inevitably flatten out
what is a rich and complex tradition of Catholic teaching on social
responsibility, including voting.
This teaching differentiates between things that
· are always and everywhere wrong (abortion, euthanasia, ethnic
cleansing),
· are to be avoided but may sometimes be necessary (death penalty,
war),
· are moral goods but open to various prudential judgments about how
to accomplish
them (fighting poverty, providing healthcare),
· and are more or less morally neutral (traffic laws, some public
works).
Catholic social teaching also recognizes that in a representative
democracy the voter might use strategy to work toward the common
good. For example, all things being equal, a voter must prefer a
pro-life candidate. This is an issue of such basic moral clarity
that it must always and everywhere be opposed.
But what if a pro-choice candidate belonged to a pro-life party and
electing this person would keep that party in power? The voter is
free to use whatever strategy seems best here, so long as that
strategy does not include actively working against protection of
human life. Or what if two candidates were running — one of whom
favored abortion and another of whom favored euthanasia? The
variations on this theme are endless, and the voter cannot simply be
given the answer to complex situations from the pulpit.
Conversion Is the Key
In this life, as St. Paul says, we see as if through a glass,
darkly. Looking though a glass darkly means that we will often make
wrong choices, even when we are trying to do right.
Especially in times of such great division, we need to be careful
not to poison our Christian fellowship with others. Friends,
family, parishioners may do what looks exactly wrong to us in their
approach to voting. They are looking through the same dark glass we
are, just not seeing the same things.
But, we must also remember that St. Paul doesn’t say we can’t see at
all. Even through dark glass, some things can be deciphered — if we
are willing to make the effort. Part of the genius of the
democratic process is that it can clarify murky issues over time, so
long as people keep talking to one another.
Democracy replaces violence with debate. We don’t shoot at one
another, we gripe at one another, until some workable arrangement
can be arrived at.
But, because we spend so much energy on this public debate, we can
sometimes reach the erroneous conclusion that everything is up for
debate.
For this reason Christians must be particularly clear when dealing
with those moral truths that, even through dark glass, can be seen
if the will is there.
Abortion, euthanasia and homosexual “marriage,” for example, are
always and everywhere wrong. It is not correct for a Catholic to
collapse moral distinctions so that they might agree with a
candidate on trade issues, for example, but the candidate is in
favor of euthanasia, so let’s call it a draw.
Grave moral matters must be given priority, even when our
affections lead us in another direction.
No voter guide or Vatican statement in the world will bring us moral
clarity if we are not prepared to let go of our own will and follow
God.
People might want bishops to instruct the faithful never to vote for
a “pro-choice” candidate, and this might make everything simpler for
everyone, but if the voters themselves are not adequately horrified
by abortion, they will not be moved. And if we are adequately
horrified, the statements that are already there are enough.
The way we become adequately horrified by evil, and adequately
attracted to the good is to become more like God. This process is
called conversion, the constantly expanding opening of oneself to
the Father.
In the end there is simply no all-encompassing formula for voting as
a Catholic, but if one tries sincerely to put off pettiness and
sinfulness in making the voting decision, and then trusts God to
know what is best, it may go a long way toward clearing away
obstacles to doing what is right.
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