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October 29, 2004  #28        858-490-8323
 
 
 
Dear OSM e-link Member,

Membership reached 764 this afternoon.  We welcome new members and hope that, together, we are able to profoundly advance a culture of life in Imperial and San Diego Counties. 

Please remember to vote on November 2nd.  In reality, it's a duty, given we are graced with the ability to shape the government and policies that will ultimately rule our land.

As always, we remind current members and inform new members that past e-link bulletins and this current bulletin can be viewed at www.osmelink.org.

God Bless!

Friday, October 29, 2004         OSM e-link Bulletin #28

Table of Contents 


Remarks from Bishop Robert H. Brom on Taking a Stand When Voting

Key Upcoming Culture-of-Life Gatherings/Projects (please join us)
     - Culture of Life Celebration and Mass in El Centro set for Saturday, October 30,
       2004, 9:00 to Noon, with Bishop Cordileone presiding

Short Reports on Office for Social Ministry Related Issues/Events
     - Surprise 10-year celebration for Rachel's Hope
     - Interfaith Committee for Worker Justice Annual Benefit Breakfast, Tuesday,
        October 19, 2004, Voices for Justice
    
- Culture of Life Family Services Banquet held on Sept. 25, 2004 a huge success

Advocacy Request
     - We simply ask that each eligible voter do just that, VOTE, on Tuesday,
        November 2nd, 2004.  Thank you!

Advocacy Reportback
     - Three members report back on their efforts to defeat Prop. 71

Web and e-mail-based Resources
     - Final look at www.noonprop71.org web site and...
     - Links to three sites that will help Catholic voters in their final deliberations

Local and Regional Events/Gatherings/Projects
     - Fourth Annual Candlelight Memorial Service for the homeless men and women 
       who have died alone on San Diego streets, November 1, 5:30 p.m. to 6:30 p.m.

Article/Statement for October 29, 2004
     - Cy Kellett's article, A Tough Election Season for Catholics

 

Remarks from Bishop Robert H. Brom


Taking a Stand When Voting
from an article first published in the Southern Cross on October 21, 2004

There are various levels of truth, one of which is so fundamental that it is pre-legal, pre-judicial, pre-political and even pre-religious. I speak of moral truth, that is, truth which defines an action as right or wrong, virtuous or invirtuous for people of every race and nation, every language and culture, believers and unbelievers alike.

Moral truth must be respected by everyone for the human race to be human. It must, therefore, not be tampered with but protected and promoted by legal and judicial systems, by politicians of every party and by religious leaders of every faith.

Without respect for moral truth, we lose the underpinnings necessary for every worthy form of government, including democracy, and for every system of faith. Without respect for moral truth, the only law that will ultimately prevail will be neither civil nor religious; it will be the law of the jungle - survival of fittest.

Faithful citizenship, consequently, is based on a commitment to moral truth, which we should defend and promote not because we belong to one political party or another or simply because of our faith. Everyone, regardless of political affiliation or faith expression, should defend and promote moral truth because we are human beings, and because as responsible human beings we want the human race to be as truly and fully human as possible.

Our Catholic faith only adds to our responsibility to champion moral truth the demands of which, in terms of embracing what is right as opposed to what is wrong, apply to everyone without exception. Standing up for moral truth should not be misconstrued as imposing our faith and religious truth on others.

Voting is an opportunity to advance the cause of humanity.

Take a long and hard look at the different candidates and various propositions, and in your best judgment take a stand for moral truth - the survival of human race as human depends on it.

 

 

Key Upcoming Culture-of-Life Gatherings/Projects


Number 1:  Last call.  Please join Bishop Salvatore Cordileone, Imperial Valley pastors and associate pastors, staff from the Office for Social Ministry, and guests, on October 30, 2004, in El Centro, for a Mass to both celebrate and build the Culture of Life, followed by  presentations on crucial life issues.


Presentations will include:

Stem cell research and cloning (Proposition 71)

Post-abortion healing (Introduction to Rachel's Hope)

Political Responsibility (Call to vote)

Birthright of El Centro (Meet the staff)

 

 

 

Respect Life Mass and Presentations
Saturday October 30, 2004
9:00 to Noon
Our Lady of Guadeloupe Church
153 East Brighton Avenue, El Centro


For more information call the Office for Social Ministry at 858-490-8327.

 

      

 

Short Reports on OSM Related Issues/Events


Number 1:   Surprise, Surprise.  Ten-year anniversary celebration astounds Rosemary Benefield, founder of Rachel's Hope in San Diego.

 

Ten Years of After-Abortion Healing Celebrated -
Rosemary Benefield Founded Rachel's Hope in 1994
 
RANCHO SANTA FE - Sept. 26 marked the 10th Anniversary of San Diego's Rachel's Hope After Abortion Healing and Reconciliation Retreats. An event was given in honor of Rosemary Benefield, founder and director of Rachel's Hope, who had the first retreat at Catholic Charities 10 years ago. Shortly after, retreats were held at the Catholic Charismatic Center in La Jolla, then onto the USD campus, then back to a Catholic Charismatic Center, this one in Clairemont. When this center closed, the retreats moved to the diocesan Pastoral Center, where they continue to today.

To date, nearly 400 women have attended either the English or Spanish retreats. Spanish retreats have been held at the Pastoral Center and in Tecate, Mexico. Men's workshops have also been conducted, by Jim Benefield, LMFT, for the past eight years.

The anniversary celebration was held at Anne-Marie Boyer's home in Rancho Santa Fe with an elegant sit-down tea. In attendance was Auxiliary Bishop Salvatore J. Cordileone, who came to support of Rachel's Hope Ministry. (See photo at left)

Father Patrick Waite, the first priest to minister at the retreats, was also present. Other priests who have been involved in the ministry were unable to attend. They are: Father Lou Fisher, Father Jim Boyd, Msgr. Dennis Mikulanis, Father Richard Perozich and Father Jerry Bevilacqua.

The Hope Monument, a life-size bronze sculpture depicting Jesus sitting next to a young woman, holding her hand as he cradles her baby, was presented to Benefield. The monument conveys a message of hope and healing to women and men who have lost a child through early death due to abortion, miscarriage, stillbirth or accident.

The monument is 60" high and 60" long, weighing 600 lbs. It cost $25,000. This is the 13th statue of its kind - others have been placed all over the United States and one in Timisoara, Romania. Beverly Paddleford sculpted the piece at her foundry in Lander, Wyoming (see www.hopemonument.com).

The monument has been partially financed by some donations and primarily funded by Anne-Marie Boyer through Rachel's Hope referrals for home real estate sales and mortgage refinancing.

"This is the biggest and best surprise I have ever had, and I am grateful for all the love that has been poured out to me," Benefield said. "I am honored by the grace of God to lead women into his merciful love. The hope is that this monument will reach out with the healing love of Jesus. This may lead them to Rachel's Hope retreats or other After Abortion Healing Programs."

Some women present came from Tecate, Mexico where a retreat was held last April at the Trinitarians of Mary Convent, lead by Sister Veronica and Maria DeLaRosa. Flerida Calkins announced that she is working on having Spanish retreats in Ecucador. One woman came in from New Hampshire who stated "I wouldn't have missed this for the world."

Julia Mellusi and Janet Ackerman first conceived the idea of honoring Benefield for her ten years at the helm of Rachel's Hope.

"As a graduate of a Rachel's Hope retreat," Ackerman said, "I knew firsthand the profound healing of her work and wanted to find a way to mark the occasion. We invited all graduates, co-leaders and clergy affiliated with Rachel's Hope to attend."

Ackerman said that she thinks women who have suffered abortions can make a contribution to public awareness. "As graduates of Rachel's Hope, I believe we have a unique ability to bridge the polarized debate surrounding the 'right to life' issue. We know all too deeply the destructive consequences of abortion to physical, emotional and spiritual wholeness. At the same time, we understand the personal, familial, economic and societal pressures at play whenever abortion is considered. Because we have experienced the great blessing of God's abundant forgiveness and love we are able to respond to women involved with abortion with compassion."

A Men's Workshop will be offered Nov. 13, by Jim Benefield (858) 581-3022.

For a Spanish Retreat in San Diego, Dec. 3-5, call Maria DeLaRosa, (619) 929-1919. Visit www.RachelsHope.org.

Upcoming Rachel's Hope retreats for women in English will be routinely announced in the New Local/Regional Events and Gatherings section of e-link.

Anne-Marie Boyer of San Diego's Finest Real Estate has agreed to donate 100% of her commissions for home real estate sales and mortgage refinancing from Rachel's Hope referrals to the monument fund. Those interested in making a direct contribution to the monument fund may do so by calling (858) 756-8128.

The Southern Cross

 

Number 2:   Interfaith Committee for Worker Justice First Annual Breakfast was a huge success.  The following article will appear in the upcoming edition of the Southern Cross.  E-link thanks the Southern Cross for permission to pre-publish this article. 

MISSION VALLEY -- A Catholic leader, a rabbi and a Baptist minister were all honored by the Interfaith Committee for Worker Justice at an Oct. 19 breakfast, "not because they reflect the order of an interfaith joke," but because they are voices for justice in our community, said Rev. Robert Ard, before introducing them.

Linda Arreola, assistant director of the diocesan Office for Social Ministry, was the Catholic leader receiving the "Voices for Justice" award, honored for supporting the committee and its campaigns to lift up the issues of low-wage workers.

Accepting her award, Arreola told how, six years ago, when she received her master's degree and was hired by the Social Ministry office, her boss saw her lack of experience in social justice as a strength, not a weakness.


 



(From left to right are honorees - with Jamie Gates at center right - Linda Arreola, Rabbi Moshe Levin and Rev. Willie Manley)

 

 


"I would be taking the position and not have any previous agendas," she said. "And in that way, I would be able to embrace the whole of the social mission of the Church. And so here I am, challenged daily to help build a culture in which life and human dignity are respected and given their rightful place."

As assistant director of the office, Arreola assists with the direction and coordination of ministries involving issues such as sanctity of life, immigration, worker justice, human trafficking, political responsibility and advocacy.
 



(over 500 guests extend hands of blessing over Mary Grillo, asking for continued strength and courage for her ministry on behalf of hundreds of low-income workers on our region)






In her speech, Linda added recollections from ICWJ campaigns and victories, and talked about the French screen saver message she has on her computer, which, translated, says, nothing is impossible for a courageous heart.

"What seemed impossible became possible because our hearts would not let us give in," she said. "Let us continue to have courageous hearts as we do God's work in making the impossible possible."

The other religious leaders honored at the breakfast were Rev. Willie Manley, pastor of Greater Life Baptist Church, and Moshe Levin, rabbi emeritus of Congregation Beth El. Mary Grillo, executive director of the Service Employees International Union 2028, also received a Voices for Justice award.

The ICWJ's mission is to educate people of faith on local labor issues and to mobilize them to improve wages, benefits and working conditions for San Diego's low-wage workers. The Office for Social Ministry and several Catholic parishes are members of the committee, and Catholics -- priests, religious and laity -- consistently participate in the committee's events.

The breakfast was the ICWJ's first fundraiser, and it raised $70,000 for the committee.
"We are thrilled about the breakfast," said Clare DiSalvo, ICWJ's community organizer. "It brought together two communities that aren't often in the same room -- faith and labor -- to celebrate our common belief in justice and strengthen our relationship with each other."

The Southern Cross

 

Number 3:   A message of thanksgiving for the September 25th First Annual Feast for Life from the Culture of Life Family Services. 

The Annual Feast for Life Banquet to benefit The Culture of Life Family Services was a great success, and we want to thank those who attended for supporting Culture of Life Family Services. There were over 600 in attendance, coming from the Roman Catholic community, the Caldean Catholic Community and the Maronite Catholic Community, as well as multiple other Christian denominations.  We enjoyed traditional Caldean entertainment and food.  The people at St. Peter Cathedral Social Hall were fantastic. The hall was beautiful, the music entertaining, and food was delicious. 

 

photo to left - Dr. Nick and Marya with Fr. Frank Pavone, Director, Priests for Life

 

We also want to  thank our special guests: Fr. Frank Pavone, Rev. Mitchell Pacwa, Actress Catherine Hicks, and  famous radio talk show host, Mark Larson.  All gave inspiring presentations challenging us all to build a Culture of Life.  We were particularly touched by the patient testimonies, where they described how their unborn children were saved and how their own lives had been transformed for the better through God's Grace at Culture of Life Family Services. 

This was a great start in fundraising for the completion of our first clinic in San Diego, near Scripps Mercy Hospital.  We plan to open this facility on December 6, 2004.  This clinic will offer a full spectrum of family medical care services including prenatal care, counseling, and spiritual direction.  We were encouraged by the generosity of the community.  Over $30,000 was raised.  Thank you for joining in our service to the poorest of the poor here in San Diego County.  We invite all to join us in this life saving ministry.  Everyone has a gift to offer and can some way help at Culture of Life Family Services.  Please contact us at
WWW.COLFS.ORG or call (760) 735-8461.

 

 

e-link Advocacy REQUEST

This issue's advocacy request is to simply vote.  Please report back on what this profound act of citizenship meant to you.

For Catholics, the defense of human life and  dignity is not a narrow cause, but a way of life and a framework for action. . . . Decisions about candidates and choices about public policies require clear commitment to moral principles, careful discernment and prudential judgments based on the values of our faith.

—USCCB Administrative Committee, Faithful Citizenship: A Catholic Call to Political Responsibility, p. 12

Vote Tuesday, November 2nd!
 

e-link Advocacy REPORTBACK


Here are reports from three e-link members describing their action in opposition to Proposition 71.  Thanks to all for joining in this fight to protect the smallest and most vulnerable members of our human community!  Vote NO on Prop. 71!

1) As requested, I sent out copies of the Catholic Bishops' Statement on Prop 71 and a wonderful thing happened.  My daughter is principal of a diocesan parochial school and she displayed the material.  Then her pastor came in with a Prop 71 handout (unsure what it was but it came from a parent concerned that no one knew anything about this) and asked her to put it in
her weekly parents' newsletter.  She asked him if she could also enclose the bishops' statement and he said yes!  My pastor has already enclosed in our bulletin the Questions and Answers  about Stem Cell and Cloning put out by the Catholic Common Good Foundation as well as publicizing your Stem Cell presentation with an insert.  I have given him the bishops' statement and will ask if it can be put in the bulletin right before the election.  I think it is the best piece out there.

Diane Parente,
 

2) We have been doing the best we can to defeat Prop. 71 here at St. Rose of Lima.  We have distributed printed literature to parishioners, held an informational table before and after Sunday Masses, and had a speaker on the topic.  Our priests explained the issue at the Sunday Masses, put info on both our parish website and bulletin, and have put up large posters on the church bulletin boards.  The word is definitely getting out about this proposition and how we should vote. I know this because I hear parishioners talking about it, and I have received calls from those who were still a bit confused.

Evangely Aliangan, St. Rose of Lima, Chula Vista


3) This note is to inform you that I passed out five letters to family and friends and it was very well received.

Patty Schwabe, St. Margaret's Catholic Church, Oceanside

 

 

 

 

Web and e-mail-based Resources


Following are web links to three important documents, Faithful Citizenship (USCCB), the Voter's Guide for Serious Catholics (Catholic Answers updated version), and Guidelines for Catholic Voters from Our Sunday Visitor.  They can become valuable tools as you prepare to vote on November 2nd, 2004.

 

http://www.usccb.org/faithfulcitizenship/index.htm Faithful Citizenship
      (Provided in both English and Spanish)

http://www.catholic.com/library/voters_guide.asp Voter's Guide for Serious Catholics



Guidelines for Catholic Voters


Our Sunday Visitor has also produced a detailed pamphlet entitled, Guidelines for Catholic Voters that can be ordered in bulk online at, http://www.osv.com/Voting/index.asp 

You may also call Our Sunday Visitor at 800-348-2440 to order this pamphlet in bulk


 

 

New Local/Regional Events and Gatherings 


If you are planning an event that falls within the mission of social ministry, send the particulars four to five weeks in advance to the Office for Social Ministry via e-mail, osmelink@diocese-sdiego.org.  The OSM reserves the right to publish or not to publish any proposed event information.  We hope this will assist your local efforts to re-build a culture of life.

1. Third Annual Interfaith Candlelight Memorial Vigil for the homeless who have died during the past year to be held on November first.

The Third Annual Interfaith Candlelight Vigil will be held on November 1, 2004 from 5:30-6:30 p.m. at the Community Concourse of City Hall, 202 'C' Street, San Diego.

This annual memorial service will be for the 213 homeless men and women who died alone on our streets in the last three years. These 213 men and women were buried and forgotten. They have not been mourned or remembered.  Now is the time to do so.  Please come to this event to help pay respect to 'the least of these' in our midst.  The San Diego Rescue Mission is the sponsor of this event.  For information, call 619.687.3720.

 

Watch for OSM e-link bulletin #29 around Tuesday, November 23, 2004  

 

Article/Statement for October 29, 2004


A Tough Election Season for Catholics
By Cyril Jones-Kellett
 

So how’s a Catholic to vote?

It has been a bitter and bruising campaign season, and for Catholics the bruising seems to have been especially intense this year.
 
Among the reasons:

· George W. Bush led the United States into a war in Iraq that was openly opposed by senior Vatican officials, and drew disappointed comments from the pope.

· John Kerry, a Catholic, was nominated by his party on a resume that includes repeated public support for abortion, even in its most extreme forms.

· Add to that the fact that Kerry, on the campaign trail, says that those who oppose the destruction of embryonic humans for research purposes are motivated by “right-wing ideology.”

· And Bush is a noted supporter of the death penalty.

· And Kerry’s position on homosexual marriage is unclear, at best.
· And Bush kept the United States out of the International Criminal Court.

And on and on...

All of this comes in the context of ongoing Catholic humiliation around the issue of sexual abuse.

So American Catholics come into the election already hurting from scandal, and now have to choose between one of their own who doesn’t seem to share basic moral positions on prenatal life and another who does not share the views of many Catholic leaders, probably including the pope, on executions and war.

And there is an even deeper Catholic divide in America — between those who regularly attend Mass and those who do not. In fact, the largest religious group in the United States is Catholics, the second largest is non-practicing Catholics.

According to surveys, Catholics who attend Mass at least once each week are, by a wide margin, more likely to vote for pro-life candidates and propositions. Those who do not attend Mass regularly are far less likely to place heavy emphasis on abortion when voting.

To Deny Communion?

Because Senator Kerry is Catholic, pro-life Catholics have been particularly animated this election cycle. There have been widespread calls for bishops to deny the senator and other “pro-choice” candidates Communion. There have been calls for bishops to demand that their flocks not vote for anyone who is publicly in support of the abortion license.

At times, bishops have seemed to display as much public division as the rest of the voting public. But lost in much of the talk of what bishops should do has been the remarkable and steady clarity of virtually all of the U.S. bishops that abortion is a grave evil that every public official, especially Catholics, is obligated to resist. Most bishops have also said that Catholic public officials who espouse the abortion license should refrain from reception of Communion.

What they have not agreed upon is whether such people should be actively denied Communion. This controversy is likely to go on long after this election, but is sure to become particularly intense if Kerry wins and becomes president.

So, How Do I Vote?

What many people seem to want is a succinct statement from Church authorities about how a Catholic should vote.

The National Catholic Reporter, and other liberal-leaning Catholic publications, to the degree that they want any statement from Church authorities at all, seem to want something like: “Catholics should consider all the issues and vote for who is right on most of them.”

More conservative publications have tended to want that statement to be something more like: “No Catholic should ever vote for anyone who is pro-abortion.”
The problem with such approaches is that they inevitably flatten out what is a rich and complex tradition of Catholic teaching on social responsibility, including voting.

This teaching differentiates between things that

· are always and everywhere wrong (abortion, euthanasia, ethnic cleansing),
· are to be avoided but may sometimes be necessary (death penalty, war),
· are moral goods but open to various prudential judgments about how to accomplish
  them (fighting poverty, providing healthcare),
· and are more or less morally neutral (traffic laws, some public works).

Catholic social teaching also recognizes that in a representative democracy the voter might use strategy to work toward the common good. For example, all things being equal, a voter must prefer a pro-life candidate. This is an issue of such basic moral clarity that it must always and everywhere be opposed.

But what if a pro-choice candidate belonged to a pro-life party and electing this person would keep that party in power?  The voter is free to use whatever strategy seems best here, so long as that strategy does not include actively working against protection of human life.  Or what if two candidates were running — one of whom favored abortion and another of whom favored euthanasia?  The variations on this theme are endless, and the voter cannot simply be given the answer to complex situations from the pulpit.

Conversion Is the Key

In this life, as St. Paul says, we see as if through a glass, darkly.  Looking though a glass darkly means that we will often make wrong choices, even when we are trying to do right.

Especially in times of such great division, we need to be careful not to poison our Christian fellowship with others.  Friends, family, parishioners may do what looks exactly wrong to us in their approach to voting. They are looking through the same dark glass we are, just not seeing the same things.

But, we must also remember that St. Paul doesn’t say we can’t see at all.  Even through dark glass, some things can be deciphered — if we are willing to make the effort.  Part of the genius of the democratic process is that it can clarify murky issues over time, so long as people keep talking to one another.

Democracy replaces violence with debate. We don’t shoot at one another, we gripe at one another, until some workable arrangement can be arrived at.

But, because we spend so much energy on this public debate, we can sometimes reach the erroneous conclusion that everything is up for debate.

For this reason Christians must be particularly clear when dealing with those moral truths that, even through dark glass, can be seen if the will is there.

Abortion, euthanasia and homosexual “marriage,” for example, are always and everywhere wrong.  It is not correct for a Catholic to collapse moral distinctions so that they might agree with a candidate on trade issues, for example, but the candidate is in favor of euthanasia, so let’s call it a draw.

Grave moral matters must be given priority, even when our affections lead us in another direction.

No voter guide or Vatican statement in the world will bring us moral clarity if we are not prepared to let go of our own will and follow God.

People might want bishops to instruct the faithful never to vote for a “pro-choice” candidate, and this might make everything simpler for everyone, but if the voters themselves are not adequately horrified by abortion, they will not be moved.  And if we are adequately horrified, the statements that are already there are enough.

The way we become adequately horrified by evil, and adequately attracted to the good is to become more like God.  This process is called conversion, the constantly expanding opening of oneself to the Father.

In the end there is simply no all-encompassing formula for voting as a Catholic, but if one tries sincerely to put off pettiness and sinfulness in making the voting decision, and then trusts God to know what is best, it may go a long way toward clearing away obstacles to doing what is right.

The Southern Cross.