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#18 02/18/04 
 

Dear e-link Member,

E-link membership reached 619 this afternoon.  Having a growing membership is great, but perhaps more important is having an active membership.  Please take action on the Advocacy Request to promote the PNI, and if possible, attend one of the events this month in the Gathering/Projects section or the Local Regional Events section.  Your presence will make a difference!

Thank you and God Bless!

Wednesday, February 18, 2004

OSM e-link - Bulletin #18

Table of Contents:

Reflection on Kevin Cooper, the Death Penalty, and Prayer by Kent Peters

Key Upcoming Gatherings/Projects (please join us if at all possible)
          - Join Bishop Cordileone and OSM staff for Catholic Lobby Day, Tues., April 27, 2004
          - Journey of Hope Conf. on the Death Penalty - Thurs. Feb. 26, 6:30 p.m. at OMC Parish
          - View the Family Values Voter Guide for the March 2, 2003 Primary Election
         
Updates from the Office for Social Ministry
          - Update on the PNI
          - Report on the Men's Leadership Forum
          - Report on Office Planning Day of the Office for Social Ministry

Advocacy Feedback
          - Report from Kent on Downloading the PNI and gathering signatures at home... If Kent
             can do it any e-link member can!

Advocacy Request
          - Repeat promotion of the PNI drive with your e-mail circle of family and friends

Web and e-mail-based Resources
          - If you are not receiving detailed up-to-date information on the Roman Catholic Church
             worldwide, you'll be amazed at Zenit News Service - sign up today!

Local and Regional Events/Gatherings/Projects
          - Domestic Violence Prevention Forum, National City, Tues. February 24, 6:30 p.m.
          - St. John of the Cross Parish to sponsor two-hour overview of 30 community programs
             and services for those who are experiencing frailty, illness, pr disability

Article/Statement for January 21, 2004
          - Excerpt on abortion and politics from U.S. Senator Zell Miller's new book

 

Remarks from Kent Peters

A Reflection on Kevin Cooper, the Death Penalty, and Prayer

Who in California was not aware that Kevin Cooper had been scheduled to die in San Quentin State Prison via lethal injection on Tuesday, February 10th at 12:01 a.m., and that he was granted a stay just hours before the execution?  National talk shows, local television and radio news programs, newspapers, and even e-link were informing the public about the conflicting facts of this case, some on a minute-to-minute basis. 

Just below you will find two photos with three of the original jurors who rendered the death-penalty verdict back in 1984.  It was taken Saturday, February 7th at a press conference in front of the Court House on Broadway in San Diego.  While taking pictures that evening, I had a chance to speak with each juror individually and learned three things.  One, they all still believe Kevin Cooper did commit the multiple murder that lead to his conviction.   Two, each was deeply troubled that important evidence had not been made available to the jury at the time of the trial.  And three, they wanted a "time out" on his execution to have that evidence reviewed.  It was clear, too, that the execution itself weighed heavily upon their hearts and had done so for many years.  

Prior to the press conference, I had spent a good bit of time sifting through information on both sides to determine whether the new revelations were valid and worth reviewing.  In the end, I concluded that granting a stay was a reasonable course of action, and that the State of California might have been on the verge of executing an innocent man.  That really troubled me.

Upon further reflection, though, I realized that I had fallen into a trap.  I was so focused on the guilt or innocence of Kevin Cooper that I nearly forgot what the Catholic Church teaches on the death penalty itself.  This was a pretty serious tactical error on my part!  It was as if, had the new evidence been found lacking, I would have been without a reason to fight against Kevin Cooper's execution.  I had forgotten that whether a criminal convicted of a capital crime is guilty or not, the Church teaches that lethal punishment, the death penalty, should not be used if the state can simultaneously punish the offender and safeguard the community.  Section 2267 of the Catechism of the Catholic Church makes this abundantly clear:

The traditional teaching of the Church does not exclude, presupposing full ascertainment of the identity and responsibility of the offender, recourse to the death penalty, when this is the only practicable way to defend the lives of human beings effectively against the aggressor.

If, instead, bloodless means are sufficient to defend against the aggressor and to protect the safety of persons, public authority should limit itself to such means, because they better correspond to the concrete conditions of the common good and are more in conformity to the dignity of the human person.

Today, in fact, given the means at the State's disposal to effectively repress crime by rendering inoffensive the one who has committed it, without depriving him definitively of the possibility of redeeming himself, cases of absolute necessity for suppression of the offender "today ... are very rare, if not practically non-existent."

As Catholics, we are to oppose the death penalty pure and simple (this opposition best fits our longstanding pro-life convictions), and we are to lift up in prayer all who suffer because of criminal acts.  Please pray for the victims of that horrible 1983 crime, both those who died and those who survived.  Pray for their families and loved ones.  Please pray for Kevin Cooper who suffers on death row, whether he is guilty or innocent.  Finally, and I would not have suggested this two weeks ago out of ignorance, please pray for those who have been involved in the judicial process, from mid-1980s right up until today: the judges, the defense attorneys, the prosecutors, the witnesses, and especially the members of that original jury.  They have specifically asked for our prayers, and I promised that we would honor that request.


Pictured are original jury members, Kahlouh Doxey, left, Donna Randle, center front, Frank Nugent, jury Forman, upper right, and three family members of Kahloah.


The following photo depicts jurors with the press expressing their misgivings about the execution.


San Diego, Pray for us.
Our Lady of Refuge, Pray for us.

 

 Key Culture-of-Life Gatherings/Projects

 

Number 1.

Hurry, Hurry, Hurry...
to date, 13 parishioners have registered.  That leaves 22 open spots for our diocesan  Catholic Lobby Day trip to Sacramento  -  Join Bishop Cordileone, the OSM staff (Linda, Jim, Jo and Kent), and 35 other parishioners at the 6th annual Catholic Lobby Day on Tuesday, April 27, 2004, at the Capitol in Sacramento.
 
 
 


Auxiliary Bishop Salvatore Cordileone will lead our Catholic Lobby Day 2004 delegation to the State Capitol.  With nearly 1000 other Catholics in Sacramento, we will learn more about issues, celebrate our faith with a morning Mass, rally to show legislators our seriousness, and lobby our own state legislators.  To receive a registration form or to register by phone or e-mail:

call 858-490-8323
or e-mail jbrower@diocese-sdiego.org.
 

Cost for the day, including airfare to Sacramento, transportation between the airport and the Capitol, and lunch is only $99.  Your parish may have an interest in subsidizing your trip if you commit to representing the parish in Sacramento.  Please inquire.
 








Schedule for Catholic Lobby Day
Tuesday, April 27, 2004



6:40 a.m.     Depart from the San Diego Airport - SW #1614
8:10 a.m.     Arrive at the Sacramento Airport
8:25 a.m.     Bus from Airport Leaves for the Capitol
8:50 a.m.     Arrive at the Capitol, Register at the Crest Theater
9:30 a.m.     Welcome and Eucharistic Liturgy
10:45 a.m.   March to the Capitol
11:15 a.m.   Rally at the Capitol (North Entrance)
11:45 a.m.   Lunch on the Capitol Lawn
1:00 p.m.     Lobby Visits to Member Assembly and Senate Offices (small groups by districts)
4:00 p.m.     Bus Leaves for the Airport (Debriefing Meeting on the Bus), Dinner at Airport
6:15 p.m.     Depart from Sacramento Airport - SW #163
7:40 p.m.     Arrive back in San Diego

Past participant remarks on Catholic Lobby Day 2003.

Mary Jo Gretsinger of the Diocesan Tribunal wrote, "I found that religion and politics do mix well. This trip is where values meet government, and it was an awesome opportunity to
reach out to my elected representatives in faith." 

Join us on Tuesday, April 27, 2004!

 

Number 2: 

The Journey of Hope... from Violence to Healing - a Forum on the Death Penalty.  February 26, 6:30 p.m. at Our Mother of Confidence Catholic Church.   Hear from the exonerated, the victim, and the activist as they tour the USA, bringing a compelling and emotional educational program to our local community.   
 

There's nothing like experience.  Consider these speakers.



Juan Melendez:
Juan Roberto Melendez Colon became the 24th person exonerated and released from Florida's death row when he was freed on January 3, 2002 after spending 17 years, eight months and one day facing execution for a crime he did not commit.





Bill Pelke:
Bill Pelke's 78-year-old grandmother Ruth was murdered on May 14th, 1985 by four ninth grade girls from the local high school. A year later, one of the girls, Paula Cooper, was sentenced to death for the crime. Originally supportive of Paula's death sentence, Bill eventually forgave Paula, began corresponding and visiting with her, and worked to overturn her sentence.




Abe Bonowitz:
Abe Bonowitz has been working to educate the public about human rights problems, in particular the death penalty and the need for alternatives to the death penalty, for over 15 years. But he only came to his position after arguing FOR the death penalty for almost a year in an attempt to disprove the facts
presented by death penalty opponents.


Journey of Hope... From Violence to Healing - a Forum on the Death Penalty

At Our Mother of Confidence Catholic Church
3131 Governor Drive in San Diego (corner of Regents Road and Governor Drive in UC)

Thursday, February 26, 2004
6:30 p.m. refreshments
7:00 p.m. to 8:45 p.m. presentation

 

For more information call 858-490-8323.
 

Number 3: 

Please register and vote in the Primary Election on Tuesday, March 2, 2004.  Check just below to view the Family Values Voter Guide.  Below that, find a link to the Catholic Answers Web Site Voter's Guide.   

 

To view an English or a Spanish version of the 2004 Voter guide click on the logo below or use the following web address: http://www.ccofsd.org







Catholic Answers Voter's Guide:  http://www.catholic.com/library/voters_guide.asp or click on the book cover below.




Short Reports on OSM Related Issues/Events
 


Parental Notification Initiative moves into San Diego Parishes

To date, more that 50 parishes of the Diocese of San Diego are participating in the Parental Notification Initiative signature gathering during the months of February, March and April of 2004.  To the left are Culture-of-Life and Life Options Coordinators from several parishes who attended a training session at All Hallows Parish on Saturday, January 24, 2004.  Learning the ins-and-outs of signature gathering, they shared their excitement at being actively engaged in an effort that will both expose the blatant hypocrisy of the pro-abortion lobby and help change the culture by bringing communication on life issues back to families where it belongs.  Just informing fellow parishioners that minors, even as young as 11 or 12, can undergo abortions without the knowledge of parents sends shock waves through a parish.  Many are asking, "How could things have gotten so far off base, and we didn't even know?"

Great News...  We received a call From Frank Reidel, the Knights of Columbus Pro-life Coordinator for Our Mother of Confidence Parish, this past Monday morning with some encouraging news.  He indicated that more that 600 parishioners signed the petition this past weekend and that they would be gathering again next weekend.  Wow!  Once again, parishioners were eager to participate.  He also said it would not have happened without the tremendous efforts of the parish's culture-of-life coordinator, Denise Ebipane.  Thanks, Denise!

Any parish not currently participating that wishes to join the effort should call the OSM at 858-490-8323.

The Office for Social Ministry wants to commend and thank all lay leaders who will be assisting in this important effort.  To see the PNI web site, please click on the above photo or go to www.parentalnotification.org.  Remember, too, anyone can start a chain of e-mails with the actual petition to other pro-life California registered voters by sending an e-mail to the PNI office with the request, "get me started forwarding the PNI."   Just contact info@parentalnotification.org to begin e-mail petition chains with families, friends and neighbors (all signers must be registered California voters).  
 
 

Men's Leadership Forum brings 250 together to engage men in solutions to domestic and gender-based violence

On Friday, February 13, over 250 community members, mostly men, gathered to learn more about solutions to domestic and gender-based violence.  To the left are students who attended from St. Augustine High School.  They took a moment to be photographed with Bishop Salvatore Cordileone who provided the blessing before the noon-time meal. 
 

 

About 25 religious leaders participated in a breakout session for members of the faith community.  This group has committed to meet again to begin work on a systematic approach to the problem of DV that will involve congregations in the work of, 1) outreach to families experiencing domestic violence, 2 educating members on domestic violence, and 3) collaborating with and coordinating local service providers to direct resources to congregation members in need. 
 

 

A message of gratitude goes out to the scores of volunteers who helped in the planning for this event and in making the day such a valuable and practical resource for so many members of the community. 

 

Special thanks to Marc Bailey from Fox-6 News in the Morning for his valuable presence as the day's emcee.  As a former San Diego police officer and current member of our local media, Marc's presence and leadership reaffirmed the fact that men can be in the forefront of educating other men on the seriousness of DV and the need to be involved in its elimination.

 

 

 

 

Thank you Marc!


Keep an eye out for next years Men's Leadership Forum to be held on or very near Valentine's Day of 2005.


Remember, Linda is available for presentations of domestic violence to women's and mixed groups and Kent is available for presentations to parish men's groups. 

 

Just call the office to request a presentation, 858-490-8323.
 

Father Matt Spahr, Pastor of the Immaculata and Director of the Office for Priestly Formation gives presentation to OSM staff to begin retreat/planning day.

Father Matt Spahr (see photo center) set the stage for an in-house planning day for the Office for Social Ministry on January 27, 2004, by sharing a reflection on the true meaning of Christian Compassion.

How often do those of of us who engage in societal change seem to lose our footing?  Being caught up in "accomplishment mentality" we forget that our Lord is really handling matters and, as Blessed Mother Teresa can be paraphrased, "In God's eyes, success is not what really matters but rather faithfulness." 

Fr. Matt focused on the importance of experiencing suffering, both personal and of others, in gaining a truly compassionate perspective.  Ultimately, we must each join our own suffering to that of Christ, and then, when we serve, we will see in those who receive our love, the face of God who so loves those who have been marginalized. 
 

 

We want to thank Fr. Spahr for his inspiring and thought provoking message.  Let us know if you would like Fr. Spahr to present this message to a larger group in the not-to-distant future.
 


E-link Advocacy Feedback

First, I sent an e-mail to the PNI office at info@parentalnotification.org asking to start an e-mail chain.  I received the return e-mail from the PNI office the next day, opened the PDF file, and printed out the PNI signature gathering form (both sides, back to back).  I then hunted down the other three San Diego County registered voters in our household (my wife, Fran, and two older children) and asked them to sign the initiative.  All were happy to do so.  I plan to ask neighbors to sign as I run into them during the coming weeks.

Then, from my e-mail address listing, I selected about 40 individuals who I believed would want to participate in signature gathering.  I added a personal message to the PNI e-mail and sent it to those fellow supporters of life and family.

Finally, I said a prayer that my efforts would help to bring sanity to the damaged culture in which we live, and that all those who received my e-mail would follow through by gathering some signatures and sending the e-mail on to others they know would want to participate in the PNI. 

Please join me in making California a safer place for families and children of all ages!

Thanks,  Kent



E-link Advocacy Request 

Please don't forget to report back on your advocacy experience to the OSM at reportback@diocese-sdiego.org

Again in bulletin #18, we will promote your initiating an e-mail chain in support of the Parental Notification Initiative (PNI).  It's as easy as e-mailing a friend, and your personal chain has the potential of generating thousands of signatures. 

This may be an historic first for initiatives in California, and it may revolutionize how we organize and support signature gathering.  The PNI coordinators have made the actual petition small enough to fit on two sides of an 8.5" by 11" sheet of paper.  That means printers in homes all across the State now have the capacity to generate legal PNI signature petitions.  After printing a petition, anyone can gather a few signatures at home or with friends and simply mail the petition to the central gathering point on the petition.  It's that simple. 

Important!  Important!  Important!  Important!  Important!

To receive an e-mail (you will then be able to forward this e-mail to friends in California) that will have, 1) a simple explanation of the PNI, 2) instructions on how to legally gather a few signatures, 3) a space for you to personalize the e-mail you will forward, and 4) a pdf file of the petition itself, send an e-mail with the message, "I would like a PNI petition e-package," in the subject line or in the body of the e-mail to:

info@parentalnotification.org





Let's help parents and their children turn this State around!
 



Web and Resources and Opportunities

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New Local/Regional Events and Gatherings 

If you are planning an event that falls within the mission of social ministry, send the particulars four to five weeks in advance to the Office for Social Ministry via e-mail, osmelink@diocese-sdiego.org.  The OSM reserves the right to publish or not to publish any proposed event information.  We hope this will assist your efforts to re-build a culture of life.

1. Domestic Violence Prevention Forum in the South Bay on Tuesday, February 24, 2004, from 6:30 p.m to 8:00 p.m. with Spanish interpretation.  Location: Fiesta Village, 1830 Sweetwater Road, National City. 

At the Forum, participants will learn about available services that can help with domestic violence issues.  The Forum will feature speakers from: the San Diego Family Justice Center, South Bay Community Services, the District Attorney's Office, the National City Police Department, National City Health Center, and Operation Samahan.  Contact Linda Arreola for more information at 858-490-8323.

 

2. The Wise Ones (50 + Group) at St. John of the Cross Parish will sponsor a "Program and Services Educational Extravaganza" on Thursday, February 26, 2004, from 2:00 p.m. to 4:00 p.m.  in the Parish Hall, 8086 Broadway Ave. in Lemon Grove. 

Kathy Holmes-Hardy of Aging & Independence Services (AIS) of San Diego County will present information on:  Community Programs and Resources - An overview of over 30 programs and services provided by AIS and other local community resources, and Project C.A.R.E. - A community effort to enable a frail, ill, older or disabled person to remain in their home and feel safe.  For more information contact the parish at 619-466-3209.  All are welcome.  If you know of someone in your parish with questions about disability services, home safety, or services for the elderly, pass  information on this event to them soon!






 

Watch for OSM e-link bulletin #19 around March 11, 2004

Article or Statement for Bulletin #18 

The following is an excerpt from A National Party No More, the Conscience of a Conservative Democrat, by Zell Miller

The Conscience of a Democratic Leader Moves Him to Oppose Abortion

 by Senator Zell Miller, former governor of Georgia now a U.S. Senator

 

    
 

Bill Clinton, Jesse Jackson, Al Gore and  Dick Gephardt, to name a few, started their political careers opposing abortion.  Over the years, they all changed their positions to pro-choice.  My own evolution on this issue has been just the opposite.  Personal experiences again reshaped my thinking....

 

So, there was a time, when the question of abortion came up, I automatically answered that a woman should make that decision about her body.  Without a shred of soul-searching, I supported the Roe v. Wade decision by the Supreme Court.  I said, "Leave it to the woman, her God, and her doctor."

 

But over time, I came to realize that this is a much more complicated issue than that.  Even from my first political stance on abortion, I qualified wholehearted support based on how the law should be applied to minors.  I took the position that parents should be notified and consent obtained before a minor could proceed.

 
Also, I took the position that public funds should not be used for the procedure.  About the same time, I modified my stance again, viewing abortion as appropriate only in the first trimester.  Then as governor, I signed a state law in 1997 outlawing the terrible procedure of partial-birth abortion.  Still, I stuck with my position of supporting abortion, but with all these qualifications.  I was personally comfortable with those positions.  Further, polls showed the majority of the American public was in favor of abortion, but with some qualifications.
 
I can accurately date the genesis of my evolving beliefs on abortion back nine years to when the great-grandchildren began to arrive.  I began to seriously wrestle with where I was on the real question.  I began to pray earnestly for God's guidance....I know how richly blessed we are that they [the great-grandchildren] were not four of the 42 million who have been aborted over the past thirty years, that they are alive...
   
I believe the thinking of many Americans is changing on this subject.  New science and technology can now show the heart of the unborn baby beating in the mother's womb.  I saw it on the front page of Newsweek, no less.  I remember my grandson, only twenty, carrying a sonogram around to show off his yet unborn, but so alive daughter.  It gave new meaning to the old Roberta Flack song, "The First Time Ever I Saw Your Face."

 
I know it is wrong to take these lives.  For me, it is no longer a political issue, but a moral one, as it should have been from the beginning.  I hope someday Roe v. Wade will be reversed.  I will support justices to the Supreme Court who I think will do that, but I will not use this issue as a litmus test.  I have come to believe that when some rail about having that "choice," they really are saying a woman should have that "comfort."  The most poignant sight for me at this year's annual pro-life march and demonstration in Washington, DC, was the large number of women holding signs saying they regretted their abortions.
 
One of the most encouraging signs I've seen...is the growing percentage of teenagers and college-age Americans who are more conservative about abortion rights than those of a generation ago.... I believe this is a national trend.  Support for abortion rights has steadily dropped for a decade, from 67% in the early 1990s to 54% in 2003.  A New York Times/CBS News poll found out that "among people 18-29, the share of whom agree that abortion should be generally available to those who want it" was only 39%, down from 48% in 1993...

 
Twenty-six states have fetal homicide statutes and I am a cosponsor of such a bill in Congress.  Ultrasound technology has proved the unborn baby is human, and abortion has become the moral and ethical issue my mother--that strong woman--always maintained it was.