Office for Social
           Ministry

                     e-link

     The Diocese of
        
San Diego

 Christmas Blessings!     858-490-8323 
#16 12/19/03 
 
 

Dear %%NAME%%,

As this will be the final e-link bulletin for 2003, the Office for Social Ministry staff wishes you a very blessed Christmas season and a happy New Year, one filled with joy and spiritual growth. 

Many of you linked up with the Stop Abercrombie and Fitch web site to register your outrage at their corrupting influence.  We thank you and would like to share some good news.  A&F has pulled the "Christmas" catalog from its stores and may be beginning to change its marketing and advertising strategy.  It has been reported that sales have been falling off dramatically.  We will be keeping an eye on them for some time.  See our report on A&F in the Advocacy Feedback section below.

Thanks for being a member of e-link, we reached 568 in membership this morning.

God Bless!

 

Friday, December 19, 2003

OSM e-link - Bulletin #16

Table of Contents:

Reflection on Christmas Joy and Social Ministry by Kent Peters

Key Upcoming Gatherings/Projects (please join us if at all possible)
          - Repeat of World's Largest Baby Shower set for January of 2004
          - Posada Without Borders set for this Saturday, December 20, 3:30 p.m. in San Ysidro
          - Update on Parental Notification Ballot Initiative - Petitions are ready to go!
         
Updates from the Office for Social Ministry
          - Jim thanks all who participated in the Christmas card drive for inmates in our diocese
          - Banquet sponsored by Sacred Heart Parish in Coronado for COLFS a huge success!

Advocacy Feedback
          - Report from Citizens for Community Values and the National Coalition for the Protection
             of Families and Children on Abercrombie &Fitch's shelving of the Christmas catalog

Advocacy Request
          - Join an historic gathering of faith-community leaders to support peace in the Middle East!

Web and e-mail-based Resources
          - Visit the Partnership-4-Chances web site and learn ways to help those who live with
              the periodic anguish of mental illness!

Local and Regional Events/Gatherings/Projects
          - Culture of Life Family Services Banquet in Escondido set for January 24, 6:30 p.m.
          - Appeal for Life event at Santa Sophia Catholic Church set for January 16, 7:00 p.m.
          - Rachel's Hope to hold retreat weekend for women seeking healing from abortion
             on the weekend of January 16-18, 2004

Article/Statement for November 25, 2003
          - Text of presentation given by Bishop Cordileone on immigration

 

Remarks from Kent Peters

A Reflection on Social Ministry, Joy, and the Christmas Season

I have a sense that most of our Christmas celebrations seem somewhat removed from the problems dealt with in the arena of Social Ministry.  Many of us who work full-time in the ministry even take time off around Christmas because issue advocacy declines so much during the Christmas season.  Christmas brings to mind thoughts and images of the baby Jesus being blessed by the warm and gentle care of Mary and Joseph, being visited by shepherds from the fields, being heralded by angelic voices, and being honored by wise men from far off places.  We contemplate the mystery of an infinitely wise and powerful God giving himself to the world in the form of a weak and vulnerable newborn human baby.  Our need to celebrate the grandeur of the Incarnation perhaps inclines the imagination to seek out what is most attractive in the Christmas story, a positive filter if you will.  We begin with the Annunciation and end prematurely with the visit of Magi, and do so in a way that, more often than not, glosses over much that is quite painful.  One might ask, is the Christmas story more like the passion of Christ at the end of his life or the season we see depicted in the Christmas cards that are mailed to our loved ones each year?  Is it warm and cozy, is it stark and distressing, or is it both?
 
Social ministry (with its life and dignity issues) tends to dwell in the negative.  Consider our issues: crisis pregnancies, abortion, infanticide, the effects of poverty, capital punishment, the plight of illegal immigrants, refugees, incarceration... You know the list well.  These issues don't seem very Christmassy, or do they?  
 
Remember, Joseph was planning to "divorce Mary quietly" (Matthew 1:19) in order not expose Mary to the harshness of Jewish law, i.e., a possible stoning due to adultery (crisis pregnancy, death penalty).  Mary and Joseph lodged with animals during the birth of Jesus (homelessness, health care).  Death threats were made against Jesus by Herod (Matthew 2: 7-18) even prior to his birth (infanticide/homicide).  Mary and Joseph fled to Egypt (Matthew 2: 13) to safeguard their newborn child (unemployment, poverty, language barriers, refugee status, homelessness, immigration, intolerance).  Talk about societal challenges!
 
The Christmas story is replete with the issues we deal with all year long.  Yes, Christmas has love, warmth, relationships, peace, and commitment, but it also had struggle, flight, fear, courage, pain, advocacy, and yes, even government intrusion, "...Caesar Augustus published a decree ordering a census of the whole world. . . Everyone went to register, each to his own town."  Christmas is really only a stone's throw away from the Passion and the Resurrection. 
 
One may ask whether this more complete recognition of the elements within the Christmas story might not take the joy out of the Christmas season.  I don't think so.  We are mistaken if we believe that Joy is the absence of suffering.  Joy has little to do with circumstances, whether they are pleasing or painful.  Rather, joy is experienced when we are in the presence of God, regardless of circumstances.  As Mary and Joseph worked through the topsy-turvy conditions of the first Christmas season, they surely had God in their midst, that little mysterious bundle of joy.
 
Pope John Paul II, in a December 14, 2003 Gaudete Sunday address to pilgrims, had this to say about joy in the season of Advent, "An unmistakable characteristic of Christian joy is that it can co-exist with suffering because it is all based on love.  In fact, the Lord Who is 'near', to the point of becoming man, comes to infuse us with His joy, the joy of loving.  Only in this way can we understand the joyful serenity of martyrs in the midst of trials or the smile of the saints of charity before those in pain: a smile that does not offend but rather consoles."  Isn't our true motivation for the work we perform in social ministry the profound love we have for our Lord and for our brother and sisters in the world?  It's so simple; from love emerges joy.
 
And so, may our Christmas joy abound as well, and may it lead us to live like Mary and Joseph, with Christ in our hearts in all circumstance in and out of the Christmas season.
 
Now, back to work!   




Merry Christmas!

 



San Diego, Pray for us.
Our Lady of Refuge, Pray for us.


 

 Key Culture-of-Life Gatherings/Projects
 

Number 1: 

The 10 Pregnancy-Care-Center Members of the Association for Life will collaborate in a program dubbed "The World's Largest Baby Shower" from January 12th to the 18th.

The pregnancy-care-center members of the Association for Life (see AFL listing below for the center nearest you) will sponsor the "World's Largest Baby Shower" between Monday, January 12 and Sunday, January 18, 2004. 

Primarily through radio announcements (promotional brochures will also be distributed in Churches by Culture of Life coordinators), the AFL will invite the larger community to tour local centers and donate baby shower items such as diapers, baby clothing, crib sheets, blankets, and monetary gifts during the center visits.  The centers will stay open extended hours that week and will have staff and volunteers present to answer questions and give center tours. 

Please visit the center closest to your home!  Expect the red carpet and an incredibly warm reception.  Don't forget to call before you stop by to insure that your center is open.
 

Alternatives Pregnancy Care Clinic
257 East 2nd Avenue
Escondido , CA 92025 
760-741-9796
 
Birth Choice of Encinitas
366-B North El Camino Real
Encinitas , CA 92024 
760-942-5220
 
Birth Choice of San Marcos
277 South Rancho Santa Fe, Ste. S
San Marcos , CA 92069 
760-744-1313
 
College Area Pregnancy Services
6663 El Cajon Blvd., Suite L
San Diego , CA 92005
619-337-8080
 
East County Pregnancy Care Center
667 South Magnolia Avenue
El Cajon , CA 92022 
619-442-4357
 
Life Choices
13412 Pomerado Road
Poway , CA 92064 
858-486-1738
 
Pregnancy Resource Center
4095 Oceanside Blvd., Suite B
Oceanside , CA 92056 
760-945-4673
 
Ramona Pregnancy Care Clinic
1530 Main Street, Suite 6
Ramona , CA 92065 
760-789-7059
 
Silent Voices
355 K Street, Suite H
Chula Vista , CA 91911 
619-422-0757
 
Turning Point Pregnancy Resource Center
11269 Camino Ruiz
San Diego , CA 92126 
858-689-9560
 

Number 2: 

La Posada Sin Fronteras (Posada without Borders) is set for this Saturday in San Ysidro at 3:30 p.m.  

Auxiliary Bishop Salvatore Cordileone will be the keynote speaker at the ninth annual La Posada Sin Fronteras which is scheduled from 3:30-6 p.m. Saturday, Dec. 20 at the border fence on Rail Court at the southern terminus of San Ysidro Boulevard.

The posada recalls Mary and Joseph’s search for shelter on Christmas Eve in Bethlehem and reminds participants of the call to hospitality and compassion for strangers and newcomers.

Participants, who will be joined by Tijuana residents at the railroad crossing fence, will also remember in prayer those who have died crossing the border since Operation Gatekeeper went into effect almost 10 years ago.

Tijuana participants will exchange crosses with San Diego participants and join in prayers and Christmas carols during the two and a half hour ritual. For directions or more information call (619) 233-4114 or (858) 490-8327.


 



Number 3: 

The Parental Notification Initiative (PNI) is moving into its signature gathering phase.  Those who claim they want to build a culture of life now have an opportunity to really make a difference in California, and because the Golden State is seen as the premier trend-setting state in the nation, a PNI success here will positively impact the entire United States.

 

City: Sacramento, CA
The California Attorney General released title and summary today for the Parental Notification Initiative, marking the beginning of the signature gathering campaign to qualify for the November 2004 ballot. The initiative mandates that except for medical emergency, no abortion could be performed on an un-emancipated minor until the physician notifies the minor’s parent or legal guardian. The initiative contains a judicial bypass provision whereby a judge can authorize waiver of notification in cases of physical or emotional abuse by the parent or guardian.

In order to qualify for the November 2004 ballot, 598,105 valid signatures must be collected by mid-May.  In order to insure that the above total is reached, we will actually need to gather nearly one million signatures.

Rosemarie Avila, one of the official proponents of the initiative and the mother of five, became passionate about this issue when she learned that one of her grown daughters had gone through an abortion as a teenager and did not tell anyone. Avila knows from experience that parents need to know when a child is making important life decisions so they have the opportunity to help.

“How can parents become involved if they do not even know what is going on?” said Avila. “Your sixteen year old daughter cannot get her ears pierced without your permission, but she can have a school nurse drive her to an abortion clinic in the middle of the day without your knowledge. It is not only common sense, it is a safety issue.”

According to an October 2003 poll conducted by Wirthlin Worldwide, California voters agree with Avila by overwhelming margins. Sixty-six percent of respondents said they would vote for a proposition to require a parent or guardian’s notification before an abortion can be performed on a daughter under the age of 18. Similar support is echoed among all age and ethnic groups. The widespread support for parental notification did not surprise Avila, who commented, “Everyone understands the importance of parents communicating with their children, regardless of where they are from or their stage in life. This initiative is about promoting family communication.”

Mark Bucher, the campaign manager indicated yesterday, “We have already seen a tremendous amount of support for Parental Notification from every corner of the state. We just received the petitions and we are already being inundated with calls and emails from volunteers requesting petitions. This is a common sense idea the people of California are going to embrace.”

In the Diocese of San Diego, Culture-of-Life Coordinators will be gathering signatures after Masses and during parish events in January and February.  If you would like to supplement their efforts by gathering signatures in your neighborhood or at a local retail establishment, you may request petitions from the main PNI office by visiting the web site to follow.  Instruction on who can gather signatures and how to do so can also be found there.  Anyone interested in obtaining petitions can obtain them by going to the campaign website at www.parentalnotification.org, or by calling 800-573-8382.

Thank you in advance for making this effort our top priority for 2004!

Short Reports on OSM Related Issues/Events 


The Office for Social Ministry requested Christmas cards for inmates serving time in our diocese, and you responded generously!

A special thank-you to ALL the MANY giving people who graciously gave Christmas cards both signed and unsigned for prison and jail inmates in our Diocese.  We distributed thousands of cards!

Also, a very special thanks to the 150-plus volunteer ministers and chaplains who have the privilege of seeing the face of Christ in each girl, boy, woman and man they visit and pray with in the 23 different detention facilities in San Diego and Imperial counties.  This is a very difficult time of year for the incarcerated, many of whom are very distant from their families both geographically and relationally.  This Christmas please pray as individuals and as community that we can help inmates to find the transcendent Incarnate Christ lying in the manger of their own hearts.
 


 

Sacred Heart Parish in Coronado put its mind to raising the funds to purchase an ultrasound machine for Culture of Life Family Services in Escondido, and they did! 

Fr. Michael Murphy, pastor of Sacred Heart Parish in Coronado, presents a check for $75,000 to Dr. Nicholas and Marya Jauregui at the November 15, 2003 Banquet-for-Life at the Coronado Golf Course Club House
.  With its new ultrasound machine, the staff at the Culture of Life Family Services will be able to give the gift of presence to expectant mothers, a glimpse into the womb, showing the reality and beauty of their unborn children.  Experience has shown that mothers who view ultrasound images of their unborn children are much less likely to consider undergoing an abortion. 

Behind the scenes, Margi Pearson and her husband Bob set the whole effort in motion.  Coordinating fundraising efforts and bringing more than 180 attendees to the banquet, they should be commended for their tireless activism in building a culture of life.  Thank you Margie and Bob!  May you be an inspiration to Culture of Life coordinators throughout the diocese. 



Web and Resources and Opportunities

Please visit the web site of Partnership 4 Chances, an organization that matches mentors with people with mental illness, at www.partnership4chances.org.  The staff of the Office for Social Ministry, having been involved with disability issues for many years, would go on record as saying that mental illness is the disability most avoided by parishes and dioceses.  As a faith community, we will build ramps and augment sound systems, but it seems as if mental illness presents difficulties that "just go beyond our expertise."  That's an excuse, by the way.  Partnership 4 Chances might just open the door to parishes learning how to work with families that deal with mental illness.  Please visit Partnership 4 Chances and learn more about this wonderful ministry.



 


E-link Advocacy Report

We want to thank all those who signed the on-line petition to Abercrombie & Fitch's president Michael Jeffries. With support from e-link members, the effort from across the country was able to garner nearly 30,000 signatures.  Combined with media attention, product boycott contributing to a 13% loss of sales, A&F has decided to discontinue its morally reprehensible quarterly.  This fight is not over, but we have made great progress.

National leaders believe that the success of this particular campaign, which took less than 45 days, can to some extent be attributed to a more effective approach.  The National Coalition, in conjunction with regional groups throughout the country (OSM e-link members included) chose to speak from a perspective of rational exposition of the facts and not strictly from a religious perspective.

In doing so we were able to transcend the Christian media and garner attention and support from the mainstream secular media. This allowed us the opportunity to expose the agenda of A&F in an intelligent and reasonable way that would appeal to any rational person.  We believe this proved foundational to igniting a broadscale grassroots rejection of A&F's ideological agenda, dramatically affecting their sales and Wall Street ratings.

Congratulations!  We will keep you informed on this important matter.
 



E-link Advocacy Request 

Please don't forget to report back to the OSM at reportback@diocese-sdiego.org

In an unprecedented expression of solidarity, leading U.S. Christian, Jewish, and Muslim religious leaders are jointly calling for active, determined U.S. leadership in pursuit of peace between Israel, the Palestinians, and the Arab states by seeking to revive the Road Map for Peace.


In December, Bishop Wilton Gregory, Bishop of Belleville and President of the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops (USCCB), Cardinal William Keeler of Baltimore, and Cardinal Theodore McCarrick of Washington joined 30 other prominent religious leaders as part of the National Interreligious Leadership Initiative for Peace in the Middle East to announce their support for renewed high-level U.S. engagement "to help both sides take the bold steps necessary to rebuild hope that peace is possible."  Their proposal includes support for:

 
  1. The Administration's goal, as stated in its Road Map for Peace, for creation of a viable, independent and democratic Palestinian state alongside the existing Jewish state of Israel, with enduring peace and security for both peoples.
  2. The Road Map's unequivocal call for an end to all acts of violence.
  3. Reciprocal, simultaneous steps to be taken by the Palestinian Authority and the Israeli Government to help restore peace.
  4. Making tangible progress in the areas of security, building Palestinian institutions, humanitarian response, building civil society, and the issue of settlements. 

Please call your U.S. Representative in Washington DC with this simple four-point message, "I join with the nation's religious leaders and ask that together we...

  1. Revive the Bush Administrations Road Map for Peace.
  2. Strongly reiterate the Road Map's unequivocal call for an end to all acts of violence.
  3. Work actively with the Palestinian Authority, the Israeli Government and Arab states to achieve and maintain a ceasefire agreement.
  4. Spell out specific steps each side must take to make the Road Map's goal possible."

Your U.S. Representative is listed below.  Please call today!

Rep. Darrell Issa (R), 49th District - 202-225-3906
Rep. Randall (Duke) Cunningham (R), 50th District - 202-225-5452
Rep. Duncan Hunter (R), 52nd District - 202-225-5672

Rep. Susan Davis (D), 53rd District - 202-225-2040
Rep. Bob Filner (D), 51st District - 202-225-8045

To determine your U.S. Representative, find your nine digit zip code and go to:

http://www.vote-smart.org

Look to the upper left hand corner to enter your 9 digit zip code. 
 

New Local/Regional Events and Gatherings 

If you are planning an event that falls within the mission of social ministry, send the particulars four to five weeks in advance to the Office for Social Ministry via e-mail, osmelink@diocese-sdiego.org.  The OSM reserves the right to publish or not to publish the proposed event information.  We hope this will assist your efforts to re-build a culture of life.

1. Culture of Life Family Services to hold Fundraising Dinner at
    Resurrection Parish, Escondido, 1445 Conway Drive

Join the community to support the COLFS on January 24, 2003, at 6:30pm at Church of the Resurrection.  Father Ken will be cooking his Famous Italian Feast for the Annual Culture of Life Dinner.  Hit following web site to order tickets: http://www.colfs.org/calendar.htm#ad. Tickets are $10.00 each.  Live entertainment: Bob Murphy Band.  The COLFS center is located at 430 North Rose St., Escondido.  

You can reach the COLFS Volunteer Coordinator, Lynne Pashaian, at 760-745-9663.

 

2. Santa Sophia's Community-for-Life Committee to host "Appeal for Life" celebration
   at Santa Sophia Church, 9800 San Juan Street, Spring Valley.

Nationally known San Diego talk show host, Roger Hedgecock, will speak at the Second Annual "Appeal for Life" celebration at Santa Sophia Church on Friday, January 16, 2004, at 7 p.m. Roger's presentation will address the sanctity of human life and other related issues.  The presentation will also include Donna Lee, a local musician who will share her touching testimony. Admission is free although free-will donations will be accepted.  A dessert reception will immediately follow and childcare will be provided.  Call Bernice Mascari at 619-462-7414 for information and/or childcare reservations.
 

3. Rachel's Hope to offer healing retreat for women who have experienced the pain
    following an abortion.

After-abortion healing retreats for Catholic women (or Catholic-friendly) given by Rachel's Hope on Jan. 16-18, 2004.  Professionally led.  Closing Mass included.  Group size limited.  Cost $45; ful/partial scholarships available.  Confidentiality maintained.  For information/registration call Rosemary Benefield (858) 581-0952.  Visit us on our website:
www.RachelsHope.org.


 

Watch for OSM e-link bulletin #17 around January 16, 2003

Article or Statement for Bulletin #16 

Following you will find remarks by Bishop Salvatore Cordileone on border, refugee and immigration issues based upon the document Strangers No Longer, a joint pastoral letter of the U.S. and Mexican Bishops.  This address was given on Saturday, December 20, 2003, at the ninth annual La Posada Sin Fronteras in San Ysidro, California.

On Stranger No Longer by Bishop Salvatore Cordileone, San Diego

 

My dear friends, we come together to celebrate the Posada, a beautiful and moving devotion by which we prepare for the coming of Christ at Christmas, a treasured tradition which we all hold dearly in our hearts and look forward to each year.  But there is more to it than that: the Posada reminds us that the Holy Family were themselves migrants who found themselves unwelcome while away from home and in time of need.  So great is God’s love for the poor that He chose to be born into the world through such a humble family.  For us who live here along the border, then, our re-enactment of the Posada is laden with meaning far beyond mere sentimentality.  It forces us to face issues that press upon us more urgently than ever in this time and place: that of the plight of migrants and immigrants, seeking welcome in their time of need.

This very concern was what moved the bishops of the United States and Mexico to write their joint pastoral letter, “Strangers No Longer: Together on the Journey of Hope,” issued almost one year ago.  This is a truly historical document, for never before had these two conferences of bishops collaborated on a bi-national pastoral statement; moreover, it is a document which puts together, in one place, the principles of Catholic social teaching on migration as well as making recommendations on issues related to policy and pastoral practice.

The writing of this document is just the start, for the challenge now before us is to promote mutual understanding and to arrive at better policies and pastoral strategies which can deal more effectively with the issues involved.  If this work is going to be accomplished, certain fundamental values will have to be respected, values which derive from the principles of Catholic social teachings elaborated upon in this pastoral letter.  The starting point and core principle is always the same: Genesis 1:26, which tells us that God created the man and the woman in His own image and likeness.  Here Sacred Scripture confirms what is already written in the human heart, namely, that God is the origin and destiny of every human person.  This endows the human person with an inherent and inviolable dignity and a transcendent, spiritual nature which, as a consequence, calls for respecting the sanctity of all human life, especially the most vulnerable.  God also created the human person as a social being; while the ultimate vocation of every human being is that of divine beatitude, it is within the relationships of human society that people respond to this vocation.  The interdependence of people within a society and of nations within the international community calls for a solidarity which transcends individual wants and concerns and creates a world in which all see themselves as responsible to others and in which everyone has something to give and something to receive.

Based on these fundamental values and principles the bishops propose five specific principles which, they say, “guide the Church’s view on migration issues” (n. 33):

            1) persons have the right to find opportunities in their homeland;

            2) persons have the right to migrate to support themselves and their families;

            3) sovereign nations have the right to control their borders;

            4) refugees and asylum seekers should be afforded protection;

            5) the human dignity and human rights of undocumented migrants should be respected.

Certainly, these principles allow some room for interpretation and some latitude in application, and so they must balance each other.  For example, nations have the right to control their borders, but not to the extent that, in practical terms, they deny persons the right to migrate or make it unduly burdensome for them to do so.  Responsible solidarity means that the wealthier nations have an obligation to accept people migrating for legitimate reasons, such as political oppression or economic hardship.

When the eternal Son of God was born into the world, he was met with rejection.  He came to save, but was not welcome.  Our celebration of the Posada is to help us to be ready to welcome Christ when he comes, and it reminds us that to welcome Christ means to welcome the Christ in the stranger and the indigent.  That is how Christ comes to try to save us in our time and place.  Our response is the measure of our authenticity as his followers, of our very worthiness as human beings; indeed, it is our opportunity to attain salvation.  Let us not be like the innkeepers in Bethlehem that night of salvation 2000 years ago; rather, let us be true to what we pray in song this night: Lord, receive this humble dwelling place, not a physical structure of brick and mortar, but the humble dwelling place of my heart.